@therealniccoy: Send this to someone who needs permission to stop feeding the circus. 🎪 #narcissist #greyrockmethod #psychology #boundaries #HealingJourney
small caveat: if you're in the process of leaving, pretend to give them an emotional response to a few of their hooks so they don't escalate or become violent before you escape. grey rock works best with people you can't get away from.
2026-09-17 04:53:17
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Ellie :
No, if you can’t cut them out of your life, recognizing that they’re pathological liars, they live inside a delusion of which they are trying to drag you into. Hold firm don’t participate don’t get dragged in don’t fight back. Do not provide a narcissist and opportunity to try and rationalize or justify their behavior. And hold them accountable.
2026-09-17 22:43:04
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Noel :
Or, cut them out of your life.
2026-09-16 18:13:49
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humble_kris :
It enrages them. Don’t show one inch of emotion. Once you see what they are doing you can’t unsee it. 🙏❤️I love how you are helping people.
2026-09-16 14:46:22
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Kayla :
This does work, just prepare for them to ramp up their manipulation tactics in an effort to get a reaction from you.
as the "Wrangler" of a Narcissist
this is accurate
2026-09-17 20:55:25
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janemaree545 :
I do this to my x husband he hates it but goes away & leaves me alone for 6 months 🤣🤣. I’ve perfected it with him
2026-09-18 07:44:23
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Doink2022 :
Gray rock works ..
2026-09-18 22:54:20
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P1R0 :
Gen Z live this. That damn stare. 😐
2026-09-18 18:00:06
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Rebecca 12 :
It dives them nuts . They end up shouting to themselves
2026-09-16 19:59:45
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dolly :
Don’t turn it into a game, a narcissist is a very dangerous person to interact with. Just leave the narcissist and go no contact. Not for a week not for a year .Forever!
2026-09-16 23:37:34
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UFeelLikeIdo :
If you do this, you have to dip NOW because they mutate cause they need that fix and if you’re their significant other boy, oh boy BE READY
2026-09-16 13:54:26
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Karyn with a Y :
it sets them off! and I always can feel when it's coming. I'm talking days leading up to it.
2026-09-17 07:07:28
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Robin :
💯 become a rock 🪨 😂
2026-09-16 18:28:12
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Assane 🇸🇳 :
Or just leave.
2026-09-16 17:49:17
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sami :
AHA I knew this was a thing i just didnt know it was 😐
2026-09-16 13:35:37
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kercie :
yea u grey rock, but they still chase u for chaos
2026-09-17 09:50:59
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visionsanddreams7 :
Don’t do this if they are physically abusive tho, it can trigger an attack from them
2026-09-17 18:57:26
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RachBeth72 :
Yep! Did this with my ex husband. Just turned into him still being upset talking in circles. Saying the saaame thing over and over because he wasnt satisfied with the boring reaction
2026-09-17 19:45:36
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Lovely Green Goblin :
yup
2026-09-16 18:07:32
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Maricruz :
Yes I did that after 61 years and I feel now in control of my feelings the narcissist is my mom unfortunately
2026-09-17 14:07:21
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Gaëlle :
I like the fact that you are in this world 😊☀️🍃
2026-09-17 19:34:00
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WanderinandHealin :
Pissed him off more
2026-09-16 18:48:59
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