@jerrytwise: 👉 Get my free 84-minute training if your parents made you feel incompetent and you are still carrying that self-doubt. Link in bio! You can also join My Road to Self Program, where you finally trust your ability to navigate life on your own. When narcissistic parents take over every basic task in your childhood, they create an artificial dependency. They fill out the forms, make the calls, and step in whenever you try to do things on your own. They frame their over-functioning as helpfulness while reminding you that you cannot manage without them. A controlling family system cannot afford to let you become self-sufficient. A child who copes independently can form their own opinions, set boundaries, and walk away. When you reach adulthood feeling unprepared for basic life skills, you assume the defect lies in you. The gap you feel comes entirely from an installed belief designed to keep you tethered to the system. Every practical skill is completely learnable once you clear out the doubt. ↳ Getting them out of you means separating the installed doubt from what you are actually capable of achieving. 👉 Join My Road to Self Program to stop living like you cannot survive on your own. Link in bio!
Jerry Wise
Region: US
Tuesday 15 September 2026 15:06:41 GMT
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ItsR4e :
Didn’t teach and didn’t do anything for me
2026-09-15 20:42:29
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fishPookie :
Abandon that narcissist asap. Going no contact was the smartest thing I ever did. Good luck everyone.
2026-09-15 15:22:44
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Next.up.fish🐠 :
My mother still to this day
2026-09-15 19:31:16
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Leah🪢 :
They turned me into an invalid so they can have me completely dependent.
2026-09-17 09:51:45
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Willwin92-🥓 :
My MOTHER once told me “you quit or fail everything you try”
2026-09-15 20:09:54
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Cosmic Rogue cosplay :
me: can you help me with *****?
parent: at your age I knew how to do that! (walks away).
me:.....I remain untaught.....time to Google
2026-09-20 15:24:52
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Vanessa :
And then there is the shame for feeling so behind as an adult
2026-10-13 13:27:02
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Jo Mey :
The fun thing was, I did the household for me and my parents completely alone, and when I left home to study abroad, my mom told everyone that I'm totally unable to lead my own household, because when I visited them, I brought my laundry (for time reasons) to wash it at my parent's. Myself!
2026-09-20 08:52:39
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Melissa :
mine taught me nothing
2026-09-15 21:10:57
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:
i left home when i was 17 years old (almost 18 - i finished school ) to escape my narcissistic parents who never did anything for me - I always did everything for myself 👍
2026-09-22 12:30:25
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RKGaskins :
My ex was this way; I’m still pushing our 21 year old daughter to do things alone
2026-10-15 14:59:12
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Toni hippiegrl :
My x husband does this to our son. Makes me so mad.
2026-09-15 15:36:36
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thebolivianguy :
I started living with my mother again after 10 years cause she wasn't able to mantain a stable job due to illness mostly caised by her mental state. It has been a nightmare, I cant do any task, no matter how simple it is, if I'm closing a ziploc bag she tells me, "I'll do it". Its so exhausting, I have to tell her I'm capable of doing every little task.
2026-09-15 15:49:59
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Fin+Flourish Co🧜🍰 :
Yep they do it for you, I just said this to my therapist
2026-09-15 18:14:09
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Charlie El Chulo :
She did this to me for everything, including giving birth to me she goes. I hope you know, giving birth to you hurt a lot
2026-09-15 20:20:41
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largamau :
Omg this is so me. Im 36 and have to learn everything myself. My mother never taught me anything. Nothing!
2026-10-10 04:46:12
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kodiaksmith86 :
My mom is like that too
2026-09-16 06:53:52
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Cluster B FREE beautiful life :
Omg yes
2026-09-15 19:00:21
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Emma :
That’s nine yep
2026-09-15 18:54:36
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Messenger*Martinez :
👍
2026-10-31 03:07:45
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Chicken Nuggets 🤤 :
I literally dont even know how to be financially stable cause my parents never taught me anything but did everything for me. Im still struggling how to do stuff cause my parents did everything even when i wanted to do it myself..
2026-10-27 03:23:09
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Yo :
Didn’t know how to use washing machine till 23 🤦🏼♀️
2026-10-20 21:46:07
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Carl 🧿 :
can't wait for that call, when they find themselves totally alone. i know it's coming because they never take anything I say seriously. that's when they are going to find out how serious I've been this whole time.
2026-10-18 15:29:00
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umar_08 :
were your father narcissist?
2026-10-27 15:01:16
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Steven Cocks :
😞😞😞🇬🇧😞😞😞
2026-09-15 15:43:55
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