DEFINITELY the A-hole, so is the former MIL. The disrespect aimed at his current wife is very telling.
2026-09-15 15:19:09
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Liberty :
I’d like to know who is supposed to have the kids for Christmas. Is it her Christmas so it was MIL way to have the kids go. My daughter’s arrangement was 1 parent Christmas Eve and the other Christmas day.
2026-09-16 12:51:09
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★𝕍𝕚𝕧𝕒𝕔𝕖★ :
NTA this is a FAMILY thing, she's still family as the mother of the grandchildren. See it from me, a child of divorce.
2026-09-15 15:37:06
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misty cherry :
I would have to know more details to make a judgment call. I can only say what I would do in that situation. 1. I would have to tell MIL I think a family trip is a great idea, and it is a perfect time for the kids, dad ,and stepmother to bond. 2. if I did go and ex called me with concerns, I would have directed he and his wife to call his mom since she invited me. 3. In the end.. I would not go. if the shoe was on the other foot, I wouldn't want my ex around on a family vacation with my current husband.
2026-09-15 18:19:55
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auroramartinez563 :
Then send kids with your Ex. Why do you feel the need to go don't you have your own family. Mother in law is disrespectful in not asking son first!
2026-09-15 22:34:20
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Nadija Vehab :
his new wife needs to get over her self. you two have kids together if she cant accept the fact youll be present on some family events thats a her problem, not you. if she cant deal with it then she shouldnt have married a man who has kids from the previous marriage.
2026-09-15 15:40:25
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Emma Meneses :
NTAH!
2026-09-15 19:06:21
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MicrocosmOfMacrocosm :
It feels like MIL is up to no good, but the daughter was so excited, would have been hard to disappoint her.
2026-09-15 23:06:43
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CindyLouWho :
I don't think you're the Ahole I think it was very kind of ex mother in law to invite you and the kids. the current wife will just have to get over it
2026-09-15 15:34:28
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🛸Casper👽 :
they have kids together, it’s a family event, the kids deserve a family outing even if their parents are divorced
2026-09-15 16:57:35
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MistressCerebrum :
It’s Christmas and they have kids together. How dare she want to join her kids on the Christmas vacation. The new wife shouldn’t have married a man with kids if she can’t handle those kids having a mom
2026-09-15 17:46:30
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JB :
yta
2026-09-15 15:32:53
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R :
Yes u are
2026-09-15 15:24:19
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mandabear61 :
MIL was wrong to put her on the spot in front of her child. It traps her into having to say yes. That being said, the amount of disdain from her I’m wondering what happened to cause the divorce. And the amount of insecurity from the new wife isn’t cute.
2026-09-15 15:26:34
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bmabrey :
Yeah, you knew it would cause problems and you were happy to help ex-mother-in-law cause those problems
2026-09-15 16:37:46
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Debs :
Who cares in if they have children together? She's not his partner anymore. Let the children go & she can stay at home. She is obviously jealous of his new wife & wants to cause issues.
2026-09-16 05:03:30
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Cherie Colquhoun :
Yes, you are the AH
2026-09-15 19:42:10
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gameshipenjoyer :
I don’t believe she a ah for caring abt there feelings. the ex husband has a family problem not a ex problem bc it clearly that mil don’t like her son new wife
2026-09-16 23:50:44
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