He’s dating his assistant and the assistant is dating the girlfriend?!!
2026-09-15 16:49:46
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Caz_1779 :
Good lord. But I love the line “you can outsource finding somebody but you can’t outsource knowing somebody “
2026-09-15 16:07:44
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Alicia Maureen :
I was in this exact relationship and I miss Becky to this day, and I’ve totally forgotten the man I was supposed to be dating!
2026-09-15 21:26:11
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selkiecanada :
I hope that assistant makes BANK
2026-09-16 03:22:25
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katrinadecarlo :
This is the red flag version of guys having a notes app with all your favorite things. Writing down your favorites so you don’t forget or can get her an exact order is sweet, outsourcing all of that information to a 3rd person who then has to remind you is gross!
2026-09-15 21:03:59
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Amanda :
I'm not shocked AT ALL! Thank you for highlighting this type of behavior.
My collective experience for men I've worked for goes somewhat like this... I purchased birthday cards for his children/grandchildren, anniversary cards for his wife, sympathy cards & flowers for every occasion and every type of relationship... I was a sounding board for conversation topics for events. I'd provide notes about interests of the people he's meeting, both professional and personal.
2026-09-15 20:50:22
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allinthedetails :
these men want the benefits of intimacy without doing the work and vulnerability.
2026-09-15 18:05:23
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JFigmy :
that's a rom com plot if I ever heard one
2026-09-15 21:24:31
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Rocketman :
This is like the parents doing their kids homework
2026-09-15 16:52:07
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Madysun | Professional Human :
Is the assistant cute at least? 😅🤭🥰
2026-09-15 16:34:15
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Michelle :
This absolutely happened to me it was the absolute worst but I didn’t know the assistant was doing it until later
2026-09-15 16:48:59
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Mags :
If he’s too busy to pay attention to these things and actually learn about her then he’s too busy to date. Most of us don’t need a lot, we just need honest effort Jfc
2026-09-15 18:00:57
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Saphira *Rocky preorders open* :
the next step is when they use ChatGPT as the assistant lmao
2026-09-16 09:39:58
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🧿 :
he seems like a manipulator that thinks he can pay someone to make him look like a good man. RUN girl RUN RUN RUN!!!!
2026-09-15 17:13:52
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Jess :
When they talk about ADHD men suddenly being symptom free once reaching adulthood, this is what they mean.
2026-09-15 22:12:12
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Dee ❌ :
“You can outsource finding somebody but you can’t outsource knowing somebody”Major Mic Drop!!!! 🎤🫳❗️👏
2026-09-16 04:01:56
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Sara without an H :
thats great assistance for sales relationship not personal relationship
2026-09-15 16:12:22
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user7758724027456 :
My FATHER outsourced gifts for me purchased by his assistant. She got me earrings and I wasn’t allowed to have pierced ears. He didn’t even realize that Mom had said I had to wait until I was 18 to get them pierced.
2026-09-15 18:54:03
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WineyWayne 🇨🇦 :
But is he talking note to give to his assistant? How else would the assistant know?
2026-09-15 18:25:40
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Ruby :
I think the assistant reminding him to do these things would be ok. and if he asked her to schedule plans it would be ok. but he needs to still be involved
2026-10-01 22:58:36
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FLEUR👑BELLO :
Those men have money but no soul
2026-09-22 08:25:25
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springer6652 :
May this type of man never find me!!!
2026-10-02 17:02:46
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Dazzle Munk :
Remember the moment from Pretty Woman when ex tells the main character that his assistant was one of her bridesmaids
2026-10-04 14:24:31
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Bulbul G :
Sounds like a great assistant. My ex husband had this too, I called her my work wife. We Didn’t last as long once he changed jobs lol
2026-09-16 04:16:39
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