gardengal :
The husband should not “help”, that word denoted a favour, when there are two adults in the home it is up to both of them to do what has to be done to keep the place running. That includes laundry, cooking, cleaning , shopping, yard work, etc. it is up to the couple to work it out as to who does what - but it is not fair in any way, shape or form to leave the mental load to the female and for her to chase the other adult around to get done what has to be done. A woman does not require another child to care for- and young women are no longer putting up with it. Why would a woman marry and then take on every chore that has to be done while allowing the man to all of a sudden have a cook, cleaner, child carer, sexual satisfier, gardener, laundress, scheduler, etc. This notion is putting the institution of marriage at risk. There is nothing in such an arrangement to benefit a woman.
2026-09-23 19:03:37