@itsmeanttobree: What avoidants say vs. what they actually (might) mean. So many of the people that I talk to have had a conversation like this with an avoidant person. It can be so frustrating to know the avoidant-leaning person is simply appeasing you & isn't sharing their real train of thought (to avoid conflict). While this kind of conversation is more common with dismissive avoidant folks, this absolutely can be applied to fearful avoidant individuals who lean dismissive as well. This, of course, does not apply to every avoidant. #avoidantattachmentstyle

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tamekagreen7
Tameka Green :
But I ‘ll leave you and go to commit to someone else shortly thereafter 🤷🏽‍♀️
2026-09-15 23:38:54
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pesely206
Peezus :
Always dealing with so much. Never specifying
2026-09-16 05:15:48
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hyoukel.23
Emilia Pacheco7726 :
can we all stop pretending that one attachment type is a monster that Will suck the life out of you and other a helpless victim that do no wrong (? like do we understand that humans are a tiny bit more complex than that ?
2026-09-28 03:09:23
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kattykat11
Kat :
Real avoidants do NOT do this much communication
2026-09-16 00:57:40
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omgimjustkev
omgimjk :
They're not avoidant..... they're just not that into You.
2026-09-17 00:00:55
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annasheppard4
Anna Sheppard :
Im curious where avoidants get the idea that relationships should be easy?
2026-09-16 11:34:34
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therapyog
Therapy :
avoidants love the version of you they have in your mind,an expectation you didnt even know but then leave once they got the sexual intimacy and all their feelings met because commitment stresses them.out believing you are going to be just like their past partners.Always being compared,what they think they doing is fair is not,its being selfish qnd most lukely feelings started floating toward another person.
2026-09-27 16:25:05
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isarubiomichelle
isarubiomichelle :
and then go be with someone else
2026-09-25 00:35:52
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dreamy_daze21
dreamy_daze21 :
What I was told almost verbatim
2026-09-16 10:30:25
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flyvisions
flyvisions :
it's always work and family lmao mannn
2026-09-16 03:02:23
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marisa.carmona2
Marisa :
This behavior is so optional
2026-09-16 14:54:42
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amindfulmesss
amindfulmesss :
they simply don’t like you enough so walk away. end of story.
2026-09-15 18:32:58
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kdemo_400
Kellen Demo :
But avoidants will quickly jump onto something else after
2026-09-23 01:16:22
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crystal5681
Crystal :
Did you hack into my phone and read his breakup text to me?
2026-09-17 18:25:13
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reid5830
Reid :
so in other words "I like the feelings you give me up until this connection needs something from me"
2026-09-24 13:18:54
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jenmangin
Jenmangin :
Then they move on and get into a relationship with someone else weeks later lmfao. They need to seek help.
2026-09-16 11:40:01
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jvmorgia
jvmorgia :
You mean they all have the same scripts??????
2026-09-16 08:34:00
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emi.wiktoria
emi.wiktoria :
I hope I never meet anyone like that again
2026-09-17 05:23:31
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fifteen.two
Fifteen Two🃏 :
I thought the second part was going to be "I'm sleeping with someone else" and the post would be done
2026-09-15 19:01:01
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muy_calientez
Ollie :
Can you explain the Fearful avoidant who doesn't want their ex to move on, (although he has moved on) and isn't interested in rekindling the relationship. So basically I don't want you to move on but I am not choosing you.
2026-09-16 09:44:44
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mammamu98
mammamu98 :
As an avoidant I was never actually AWARE of the fact that the first was hiding the second ya know, in my mind I was just so exhausted and it made total sense that it was everything around me and that I didn’t have time or the emotional space relationship
2026-09-16 09:49:53
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beanerific0802
Bean :
They don’t even tell you all that, at least it would be communication
2026-09-16 00:53:06
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boh_rat
CYD :
They also never seem to understand that they themselves are wasting their own time, their own future, their own years. They have this abstract concept of "future" and "when I'm ready" not realizing they will very soon be LIVING in the future and currently WASTING it.
2026-09-17 16:21:19
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minoutedu
MINOU TË DU | in Middle East :
Avoidant ppl don’t exist. There are just ppl that don’t love you, and are too much cowards to say it, because they don’t want to lose you, they just want to keep privileges without commitment. C’est tout. Don’t waste your time les amis.
2026-09-17 00:10:30
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kaimgali8
kaimgali :
translation : I DONT LIKE YOU ENOUGH
2026-09-17 21:23:19
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