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Lance :
Then the side guy comes in
2026-09-16 12:09:50
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Anthony :
Crazy how no matter how good of a guy you are, STILL isnt good enough. This happened to me very recently. What a joke
2026-09-16 20:46:45
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_haileymarie_69 :
Real shit. And I feel once you are second guessing the relationship that’s when it’s already ended if that makes sense
2026-09-15 20:33:47
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Blake_Ellis :
I give up
2026-09-16 19:27:38
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user9845675477 :
Truly good men are rare. Yes, they can be routine. Set in their ways. Not exciting. But if you actually loved him — you fight for it. Love isn't supposed to feel easy all the time. It's supposed to challenge you. That's how you know it's real. Go watch any dating video right now. Ask literally any single friend. The pool out there is rough. It's exhausting. It's hard to find someone you connect with past month three, let alone four years. So here's my honest question: if he really is a good one, someone else is going to see that fast. And you're going to watch someone spend the four years you just walked away from. Was it freedom you wanted? Or did you convince yourself 95% wasn't enough — because you were chasing a 100% that doesn't exist?
2026-09-16 20:45:28
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user208121818423 :
It’s all about how they feel and physical attraction, not about how they are treated
2026-09-16 17:50:38
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Jerome Roseborough :
This video would have been insightful if you gave specific examples...because a "good guy" is relative. You have guys right now who feel they are good guys and will hear this and realize, they are cooked. Also, there are marriages that are on their 5th and 6th decade, where if you asked them if they have ever had to ask their partner over and over to do something even after being told, you will find this is what Dr. John Gottman defines as a perpetual problem that doesn't have an answer nor does it have anything to do with who the person is at their core and is part of the 69% of issues in relationships that LITERALLY have no answers to....31% of issues in relationships and ironically the area most people never focus on and can be fixed...are not core things...normally behavioral things that aren't personality, they aren't who someone is at their core...and if changed, would not change who the person is..... Dr. John Gottman.... you're welcome!👌🏻
2026-09-16 20:28:57
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Hailey :
Them being a good person doesn’t mean they have to be your person and they could also find someone they match with even more
2026-09-17 02:50:20
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mk5_brie :
this is literally where i am right now. we’ve been together 4 and a half years and i have been second guessing it so much. he’s an amazing person but it just doesn’t feel right. but we literally just got a place together
2026-09-16 14:04:44
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belubbelub :
Do people not understand that as a partner you shouldn’t have to repeatedly bring up issues to better the relationship? If the partner chooses to ignore your concerns they don’t care
2026-09-16 22:06:57
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Taylor Solberg :
hi! so you literally read my mind. i left a gooood guy back in july, and i just found out he went on a date and she stayed over at his house. how did you feel about him being in a new relationship or seeing other people? or i guess get passed that feeling? if that makes any sense in the world 🙃🤍
2026-09-18 02:03:03
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naaawwwdeeeyuhh :
I feel this so hard. I was talking to a really nice guy, had a lot of similarities and values, but I just felt so uncomfortable around him. I ended things bc I knew he deserved someone who was actually into him. And now he has a girlfriend who actually seems into him and I’m SUPER happy for him
2026-09-16 13:39:51
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nadiamm._ :
Where is that necklace from ugh it's cute
2026-09-18 02:23:59
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Brittany :
My ex is what everyone would consider a good/nice guy and they’re not wrong. But he also deeply lacks self-worth and initiative, he’s not abusive as a result but he’s not a partner. You can be a “nice” and well meaning person and an unhealthy partner.
2026-09-16 21:58:38
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jade :
and I'm proud of you- but nice is JUST what you're looking for. you left and that's all that matters.
2026-09-15 22:04:37
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𝒩𝑒𝒾𝓈𝒽𝒶♡ :
Wow. Perfect timing to hear this🫠
2026-09-15 22:59:06
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Nopeqm 🇨🇦 :
I left a “good guy”….. and best thing I did 😬
2026-09-16 17:33:29
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Cree ✨ :
Thank you for this 🥹
2026-09-16 00:41:54
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Hunter Rose :
You’ll just ask for too much at this point
2026-09-16 21:26:29
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Jade Armstrong :
Really really needed to hear this. This is me with my husband, but we’ve been separated for a while now. But I keep convincing myself to stay because of this. 🥺
2026-09-16 23:26:14
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😹 :
If you have relationship ocd this isn’t for you
2026-09-16 20:54:56
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ash :
such a good life lesson for us, someone can be a good, kind person and still not be what you need and deserve 💯
2026-09-17 01:13:54
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catss966 :
what were 'his ways' tho? what did you try to look past
2026-09-16 13:54:46
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pastrichefb2 :
i sense a “ the grass is always not greener on the other side” video in your future
2026-09-16 20:18:58
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Britt Behm🏳️🌈🇨🇦 :
I left a good guy after 8 years… he turned into more of a roommate. Fast forward… I’m a lesbian
2026-09-16 18:16:45
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