girlies/men i need help 😭 this guy was one of my teachers during my masters last year and he’s only 8 years older than me (and unfortunately exactly my type). i got his instagram on the last day of class because i wanted to tag him, and over this year we started talking more. eventually things became sexual, but now he’ll leave me on delivered/seen and then randomly come back when it’s convenient for him or when he wants something sexual.
i know he’s genuinely busy and i know i’m probably giving him way too much mental energy, but the inconsistency drives me insane because i actually like him. he’s educated, attractive and respectful towards women, and physically he’s exactly my type, so i’m finding it really hard to detach. we’ve also had disagreements, and sometimes he’ll disappear after one and then come back later.
i’m trying to get out of the mindset of chasing, checking and overthinking and just let his actions speak for themselves. but now i’m stuck on whether i should unfollow him or just leave him there and genuinely stop caring. my account is public, and if i’m being honest, a tiny part of me wants to glow up, post my life and let him see what he missed 😭 but i don’t want to be doing things just for his attention.
so girlies… do i unfollow him or just let it be and move on?
2026-09-15 22:35:55
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𝖬𝖺𝗋í𝖺𝗌ּ ֶָ֢. :
you are my life teacher forever♾️
2026-09-15 19:41:38
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Alek :
Reduce the friction in your life maximum capacity. Hyperactive self evaluation. Feel whole in yourself so that anyone who comes and goes shakes absolutely nothing in your core
2026-09-15 21:11:55
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Drew :
Can you be part of my life? 😂
2026-09-15 22:46:11
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maryian :
[Gesture OK][Gesture OK][Gesture OK] very true
2026-09-15 23:42:24
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Kaye Yap :
Exactly
2026-09-15 20:53:13
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Juney 🌸🇿🇦 :
Absolutely!
2026-09-15 21:23:35
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rafael :
you’re right
2026-09-15 20:48:37
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Marnie ✝️🤍 :
Yes very true 🥹🩷
2026-09-15 20:10:57
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gregvnwk :
Love it - keep these videos up. Helps so much.
2026-09-15 19:41:06
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MaxiKing :
So true
2026-09-15 19:36:47
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🔥🍀🌷Som Ying🦋🦋🏹 :
yes indeed
2026-09-15 22:51:10
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Kataali Touch🐾 :
may i never miss any of your classes
2026-09-15 22:17:02
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🌷Ms A :
Im starting to build myself again. I have a lot of regrets from my previous experiences😢 i dont know how should i start😞
2026-09-15 21:28:47
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YASSSS
2026-09-15 22:23:12
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Venice Orcales :
exactly!
2026-09-15 21:41:02
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PRIMƎ DOZE💎 :
I want to be with you gang😔
2026-09-15 21:50:24
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𝓬𝓪𝓶𝓲_.𝓼𝓸𝓯 :
First
2026-09-15 19:40:02
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theo‘s chaos :
love your life lessons 🫶🏼
2026-09-15 19:37:37
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I’m Japanese. I know that your comment is very valuable and important. But my English skill is not good so I can’t understand your comment perfectly. I study English hard!
2026-09-15 23:37:22
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Chrisdookram37 :
yes bro 🙌
2026-09-16 01:23:56
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