Currently dealing with an avoidant and it’s leaving me so defeated
2026-09-16 17:58:28
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ru💐🌾 :
oh i’m sick and this isn’t even my reality anymore
2026-09-23 15:55:28
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Carleigh Fick :
I hate when people tell me an anxious attachment person and avoident attachment person can never work out because I've never loved someone more than I love this man and I will do everything in my power to be better and understand for him
2026-09-16 19:52:02
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killer_bait :
The type of conversation I wish we had
2026-09-16 20:25:02
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Mr. Pibb :
I literally told her that I hate this about myself but when she disappears I spiral and over think. if we're going to reconnect I need her to communicate when she needs space and when she'll be back. Idm if she needs space, just tell me. I asked if she was willing to do that. she said yes. then she didn't do it. she disappeared anyway
2026-09-16 16:22:46
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alias :
ohok im crying
2026-09-23 05:11:21
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gil :
We got back together better than ever #winning
2026-09-16 18:59:59
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marshall :
Why is it always a problem that someone wants space? I don’t always want to talk or be around someone, sometimes I just wanna be alone but it’s a problem?
2026-09-16 21:26:01
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𝐊𝐢𝐞𝐫𝐫𝐚 :
the worst thing ever avoidants shouldn’t be with anyone until they’re healed. i’ll never feel so stupid again in my life
2026-09-17 07:03:52
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𝓡𝓸𝓶𝔂 ᥫ᭡. 🍂 :
This makes so much sense
2026-09-16 15:35:09
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miro❀♪♒︎ :
But,the truth is,that every time he needed space he was leaving me,slowly,until one day he left for good…
2026-09-17 01:03:58
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Noelle Smith :
dealing with an avoidant rn and its hard.
2026-09-16 23:17:19
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Lily Violet 📚🎼 :
then when i did give him the space he asked for guess what happened lmao…
2026-09-18 12:53:11
11
nemomeansnoone :
Being both is a special kind of hell
2026-09-17 01:23:11
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werka marie ꕤ♡ :
Why I’ve never had convo like this with him…
2026-09-18 19:30:43
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hyuniee_luvs⭐️ :
I’m both..
2026-09-22 22:51:52
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Winter :
It’s fucking hell it’s been a year and I just feel like nothing I ever do will be good enough for him .
2026-09-18 08:17:08
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NM :
The worse thing I’ll never do again
2026-09-17 04:50:38
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Ms.unforgettable :
ok but the fact that i’m both is why i’d rather just stay to myself
2026-09-24 05:50:01
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maddox_trevor :
Damn that hits hard
2026-09-24 00:39:55
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user35532758886 :
Watching myself go from an anxious to an avoidant
2026-09-17 01:26:26
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Sofia ☻ :
He’s not mine anymore. :(
2026-09-17 03:52:57
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juino360 :
He told me he needs to focus on himself. I didn’t respond. I love my sweet boy 💔
2026-09-21 17:36:51
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