Kathy Gusenkov, MS, LMFT
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Tuesday 15 September 2026 23:31:36 GMT
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Snowii :
so could most boundaries be stated as an if/then statement? like: if you keep yelling at me, then I will walk away until you calm down
2026-09-16 04:09:41
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What's my name again? :
OMG I needed this years ago ...
2026-09-16 02:57:39
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Abi :
What would “do not yell at me” be? Felt like a boundary at the time but I didn’t give state a clear consequence.
2026-09-16 04:01:07
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claireorsomeone :
SUCH a good breakdown, thank you!
2026-09-16 03:03:59
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Deejay :
these phrases are all met with aggression by an entitled boundary pusher. for me it has led to violent outbursts.
2026-10-08 02:20:57
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AAAAAAAA :
What is “I don’t like being yelled at”
2026-10-19 07:32:21
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Preshiz Pink :
This is very helpful 🙂
2026-10-13 08:42:25
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dharma🤪 :
I know this isn't about parenting but it changed my perspective on my conversations with my kid
2026-09-16 04:33:27
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lysistratawouldgo :
I love help with specific scripts. Thank you so much!
2026-09-16 16:47:50
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ShortCakkes :
Can you assist me in this area, Ultimatum and boundary sounds the same… what’s the difference?
2026-10-08 22:17:57
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DJ :
incredible
2026-09-16 18:18:35
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likesewserious :
So often my husband think I’m yelling when I don’t think I am. So he just leaves, suddenly without warning. And then tells me it’s because I yelled.
2026-10-19 05:16:47
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Sinnerbun :
I would label "let's find a way to communicate that feels better for both of us" as collaboration, not negotiation. I understand negotiation as, "If you'll stop yelling at me, I'll [a change in my communication that would meet their needs.]" So like if their yelling comes from feeling unheard, maybe "I'll make sure I give you the opportunity to complete your thoughts and that I understand you before I respond." Something like that. Same idea, different approach. Collaboration is doing it together, negotiation is starting with offering a bargain. In my mind
2026-09-16 04:09:23
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