Kat | The Unpackologist™
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jkayman :
I am going through this now....I don't even know what I want. I have never considered me before.
2026-09-16 00:58:48
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kiki.fett :
I have the only empty stocking Christmas morning. I think I’ll fill it this year myself :)
2026-09-16 13:35:21
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Laura King :
She realizes this when perimenopause sets in and no longer has the hormones to support the brain activity for tolerating it all.
2026-09-20 17:30:17
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Jessica3_16 :
That’s why when the mother dies… the family often falls apart. Moms are typically the glue.
2026-09-16 11:06:36
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saved_by_grace76 :
i have spent my entire life taking care of everything and everyone except myself
2026-09-16 02:15:09
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RoyalTee@55 :
You have spoken a word my sister. I am realizing this now. I’m tired!
2026-09-21 16:50:46
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rootsandrefugegreenhouse :
I feel this on soooo many levels!
2026-09-21 14:22:36
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Sage Moon Designs Inc :
My husband always tells me I’m the rock that keeps everything together. I’m tired of being the rock after 30 yrs. This rock needs someone to step up and be her rock so I can take a break.
2026-09-17 00:27:36
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lawlam :
This! For 30 years. Til I unpacked THAT shit…then packed MY shit.
2026-09-16 12:17:46
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Joni_Rae :
2018 I walked out of my house and moved into a motel after 25yrs of marriage and raising 4 kids. I was so burned out I didn’t even know who I was. Christmas no parents for me, birthdays missed, no one knew my favorite color, I didn’t even know my favorite color or what my hobbies were. I was solely there to give to everyone else and to keep my husband comfortable, but did nothing to keep me comfortable. I divorced him and been living life on MY TERMS. Going to a concert tonight in Tampa Fl [Tears of joy] Never again will I sacrifice myself when no one else is sacrificing. Peace ✌🏻 & Love to you all
2026-09-17 15:29:19
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Daily Diary :
🙂↕️There’s also other women who try to make us feel obligated to stay on the plantation.
2026-09-16 13:48:47
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beans :
🤷🏾♀️. I keep telling everyone I'm tired. I don't want to babysit grandkids, I don't want to cater to a man, I don't want to bother with performative female acts. I was taught to cater to my molester, raised my siblings and was a mom at 16. At 50, I want to take care of myself, worry about myself, spoil myself. Atp, it's to hell witj everyone else. Idc who they are, no seriously. I'm under appreciated, overstimulated, overwhelmed and just plain over it.
2026-09-19 11:20:14
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knaka.87 :
Exactly what I’m going through right now. And I’m exhausted.
2026-09-16 02:18:46
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Im him lowk :
The parts about overexplaining and seeking approval in "The Peace You Keep Giving Away" by Claire Morgan felt way too personal. Exactly what I needed.
2026-09-20 11:39:32
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CFink :
medapause yes we
2026-09-21 13:46:46
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Mina :
Oooohhh girl
2026-09-19 21:17:38
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Maggie :
I finally said im tired. Sunday dinners at mom and dad's meant everyone else relaxed while i cooked, served and cleaned up. In hindsight, Im as guilty as anyone for creating the situation. I finally told everyone i want sundays off too, meaning they could cook or we could do takeout or sandwiches, etc., but I'm not cooking on Sundays anymore. They actually took it well. That has led to other changes. For example, my husband does his own laundry now (we both work). I think it helps when you get to a place where you are so done that you don't care how they're going to feel about the changes because you can't/won't keep serving everyone but yourself.
2026-09-19 07:11:36
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coachesde :
Talk Lov🔥🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭
2026-09-20 13:30:40
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Blair In Belgrade :
That's why I will remain single + childfree, and never live with a man 🥰
2026-09-16 17:10:39
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Shan :
I just want to be nomadic … being stable is so boring
2026-09-17 10:08:56
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Sassy :
I dont even know what i want anymore smh.
2026-09-16 02:25:37
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Raving Raven 🐦⬛ :
“She finally included herself in the life she was building.” Pure gold
2026-09-16 03:11:47
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niferX :
you hit home with this one
2026-09-16 00:14:28
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Jessica Kelly :
Wow. The way you spoke to my soul. ❤️
2026-09-18 22:52:42
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user8565596835418 :
This!! And after all that I’m starting to think I’m just tolerated. An afterthought.
2026-09-16 01:54:48
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