Jefferson Fisher
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Wednesday 16 September 2026 01:13:56 GMT
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laice :
I can't do it .... YET!!!! there is a children's book about it.
2026-09-16 20:51:21
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ShattyPatty :
I just yell “yet!”
2026-09-16 15:51:04
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Courtney Hammond :
Dr Becky is so healing
2026-09-16 13:10:22
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Slightly Perfect :
I told my 2yo, "Say, 'I'm having trouble,' but don't say you can't. You absolutely can; sometimes it just takes awhile." When you argue for your limitations, they're yours.
2026-09-16 01:35:34
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Andrew G Royal :
If it’s hard it means the first step isn’t small enough is gold
2026-09-16 19:48:26
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ceri.mk :
The first step isn’t small enough is a great line.
2026-09-16 12:48:27
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larren_johnson1 :
I tell my son this, “you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you”. So when he says I can’t, I say “you can do what??” He repeats it. He understands when he can’t, the Lord certainly can.
2026-09-16 18:13:45
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Chelsy Thornton :
My kids have a mantra “I can, and I will!” You can see the strength come back once they say it!
2026-09-16 11:13:57
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jules 🤍🍁 :
“What’s making it hard for you?”
2026-09-16 03:46:19
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deion003 :
“If something is too hard to do that just means the first step isn’t small enough”. Wow
2026-09-16 18:37:34
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ShiftThePatternParenting :
I love how Dr. Becky articulates her inner thoughts for her kids! This is such a powerful parenting strategy ❤️❤️❤️
2026-09-16 02:14:26
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julianamp43 :
Wait why is The ᑌnseen Life Rules by Levi Kott criminally underrated?? Just finished it and I'm still thinking about it.
2026-09-16 07:33:17
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Sarah Campbell :
I tell my son can’t is just can with a T (Tough). And when something is tough you CAN with Time, Try, and Teamwork (Patience, Practice and Help). Now he says “this is tough” instead of “I can’t”.
2026-09-19 15:52:39
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ccinsfl :
“If something feels to hard, it just means the first step isn’t small enough”
2026-09-19 09:59:48
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Jackie Laidlaw :
I wrote a kids book all about self talk for this very reason!!! 💕💕💕
2026-09-17 00:30:58
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Casey :
I think this woman is an earth angel. Seriously, an intelligent and beautiful soul. Love her content♥️
2026-09-16 03:59:34
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Probablycrying :
Yet.
2026-09-16 02:09:24
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laina.made :
I love this idea. Break it down.
2026-09-17 12:07:57
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thinkingfeelingbeing.meg :
Thanks I needed this (I’m 34)
2026-09-17 01:53:29
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Kevin/SAHD :
I always say “there is no can't only try.”
2026-09-16 19:31:26
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Cerra Lyn :
I say you can do hard things. And have them repeat and try again. I also do this with my kindergarten class
2026-09-16 22:23:28
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Ben :
I just wanna reiterate her first point: "you can only be so effective in a hard moment" Support in the hard times, teach a new way/lesson in the calm times.
2026-09-17 15:28:24
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paloma_the_pharmd :
All of her answers are so long like how am I going to remember this stuff
2026-09-17 03:34:04
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Victoria 🇨🇦🍁🐻❄️ :
lol I still have the “I can’t” thought but it’s immediately followed by “but I have to there is no choice” 😂
2026-09-17 17:49:42
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boyloxplf20 :
It’s too long. The kid already lost interest lol 🙄🙄
2026-09-16 23:16:16
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