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Jemma 🪬🪷🧘♀️ :
am I the only one who can only date 1 person at a time😭
2026-09-16 15:21:25
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francopan :
You could date 20 people at a time. If you get feelings for someone and they do not reciprocate, the other 19 won't matter.
2026-09-16 07:31:59
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Heather LeAnn :
my problem is, I can date multiple, but if I am REALLY interested in one person, everyone else starts to borderline annoy me. I have a really hard time wanting to respond to them and I definitely don't want to accept a date with them. that being said, I'm 100% sure I'm an absolute disaster of a woman. 😁
2026-09-16 17:26:43
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HRH 👑🎀🫧🤍🩰🧑🏽🩰🧁💕 :
If you have strong boundaries around intimacy, you don’t have to worry about your time being wasted.
2026-09-16 14:59:00
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Laura :
I’ve commented before, that I’m currently in a slow burn building up nicely. 2.5 months in, we’ve had 4 dates. We are both workaholics and have both been allowing life to take priority (as it should right now). I took an emotional risk the other day and said that I thought we both should start prioritising a little more time together and communicating more regularly, but that it shouldn’t feel pressurised. He agreed, and said he didn’t want this to fizzle out. Hey presto, we’ve both put the effort in, communicated better, and had a lovely catch up in person yesterday with big steps in openness, future plans discussed while keeping the relaxed and intentional feel we’ve had from the start! I’ve never had a slow burn before, and have realised that the love bombing I’ve handled until now in previous relationships makes me overwhelmed, anxious, and an unpleasant person to be around 3/4 months in when the honeymoon period is over and a more normal pattern of life kicks in. This feels sustainable, buildable, and so incredibly reassuring. We’re building something on shared values and morals, at a sustainable pace! Thank you for all your reassurance that I’m doing the right thing! ❤️
2026-09-16 09:17:33
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Kerri Smith :
I just want to say that your content has been really helpful for me as a woman who ISN'T dating for marriage. It's helped me to be really upfront about what I am looking for and to realize that I can still set and hold boundaries around that.
2026-09-16 22:29:48
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B :
I think people genuinely think things will change somewhere along the way. They seldom do.
2026-09-16 07:42:49
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Aspen 🧘🏼♀️🐶🌿 :
As a 90’s teen, may I compliment your shirt? 🩷
2026-09-16 21:34:26
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alyssa :
dating was so much more stressful for me when I kept putting my energy into a man i barely knew. id decide "I like this one" . even though I didnt know them or ehat they actually brought to the table. then id be focused on whether or not they texted . id constantly wonder if they lost interest . EVEN IF I DIDNT EVEN FOR SURE KNOW THEY WERE INTERESTED TO START WITH. your videos made me realize what I was doing. now I have a couple men I talk to. i do not dwell on one. and I let my energy NATURALLY go where its actually wanted and to who is actually putting in effort. and ive been asked on a date after 3 weeks of talking. before I saw your videos id spend months in situationships. things would never go beyond hook up and I didnt know why I was stuck in that loop. well because I was committing myself to situations and I didnt even know their intentions or them as a person. really truly trust this process ladies. overanalyzing and hyper focusing on someone because you decided you like them before you even really know them will drain you every single time .
2026-09-16 15:10:08
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Eva | Felt Crafts & Bucilla 🪡 :
This last year I was intentionally choosing not to date, because I have a lot of hobbies and things I like to focus on in my spare time. That being said, I still approach love with an open heart, like if it happens, that would be wonderful! I just wasn't on the apps, or seeking a man, and then a man basically just dropped into my lap. Since I wasn't actively pursuing a relationship before him, I've been replacing the times where maybe I should be "duty dating" with my friends, craft activities, content creation, spending time with family: basically just the things that fill my cup, and make me feel secure and happy with my single life, even if things don't end up working out with this man. I'd love to know your thoughts Sydney!
2026-09-16 17:30:55
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cheddargirlish :
I have a question, how do I start dating multiple ppl at a time? I’ve never done it before but I want to at least try! Do I just do it?
2026-09-16 13:44:12
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Rafael black 🖤🖤🖤 :
People get their time wasted in committed relationships and marriages too… dating trial or courting phase is the best way to protect yourself. ( 3 months) (6 month if you’re older)
2026-09-16 09:58:13
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drodst :
Everything has risks, even having good cologne and making the right choices …. Everything
2026-09-16 11:48:15
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✨🌸 Flaura ASMR🌸✨ :
I sent you a DM thanking you <3 your vids have changed my love life rapidly and whether we like to hear this stuff or not we NEED to 😭
2026-09-16 10:59:44
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Mish :
Wait what’s the issue with long distance??
2026-09-16 20:59:47
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katie.gilmer193012 :
I needed to hear this today.
2026-09-16 09:17:41
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Sweetdupa :
I LOVE This TEDTALK!!!!!!!!
2026-09-16 15:35:20
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J :
Literally
2026-09-16 09:51:08
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user2552186634928 :
Yes, ma’am 🫡
2026-09-16 13:25:02
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Alexia_Mag :
I needed to be reminded of this today thank you [Înduioșător]
2026-09-16 10:23:20
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cpaaxo :
Bruh Fr no bitching!!!
2026-09-16 15:26:54
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Browned_Off :
Sorry but lots of women just don't see themselves as having agency
2026-09-16 11:05:38
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soyamilk :
@rawrrawr HWHWHAHWHWHWH😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
2026-09-16 11:27:12
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