@charomannder: And I’ve held this opinion throughout every relationship I’ve ever been btw #dating ##relationships##boyfriends

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thedilliano91
thedilliano91 :
and if he's on a rollercoaster that's a six flags
2026-09-16 18:43:35
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user01181988
D :
If he has no woman friends 🚩 if he only has one woman friend 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
2026-09-16 20:09:54
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lorddayehawk
Tom Thurman140 :
I will say, if you are uncomfortable with your partner being around members of the opposite sex alone, you should examine if that is based on your own insecurities or their behavior.
2026-09-16 17:36:31
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ratqueen0317
Rachel Leigh :
When my husband and I first started dating, he introduced me to a woman he'd been friends with since college. She ended up being a bridesmaid in my wedding. We talk daily. I'm so glad my husband was friends with her bc it meant I was able to make a new, hopefully lifelong, friend.
2026-09-18 08:34:14
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wy.ed
wy.ed :
Red flag for having no friends that are girls? Really? I have two friends total. Both are guys. Im not understanding how that would be a red flag?
2026-09-17 17:19:18
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damdaydam
≽^•⩊•^≼ :
mama there's a dan and phil behind u
2026-09-16 18:56:58
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atmosck
Jacob Herlin :
what if your boyfriend only has female friends
2026-09-17 21:21:41
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felong16
Twitch✨Felong_ :
the red flag is usually the women not allowing it. appreciate the attention to this!
2026-09-17 12:25:27
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light_side_affliction
light_side_affliction :
It’s a red flag for sure…but on who? Him or her? If he “can’t have female friends” BECAUSE of her, it’s a red flag on her. If he can’t be platonic to other women, that’s a red flag on him. If she can’t trust him around other women that could be a red flag on either or both depending on why that trust isn’t there. If it’s because of something he’s done, sure, flag on him. If it’s because she’s paranoid due to other men, that’s a flag on her.
2026-09-17 19:57:15
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project_tengu
Tengu :
I try to be platonic around women, they don't want to be platonic around me. Its easier to just not have female friends
2026-09-17 23:51:26
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tinyszuki
tinyᛑᛗᛛ :
“if she has no male friends, that’s a red flag” right?
2026-09-16 20:10:22
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coach8811
Matthew Bryan :
yeah, it is either a red flag for him or a red flag for you... lol
2026-09-16 23:21:41
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msamandalynn21
Amanda Lynn :
my ex had more female than male friends (which was shocking being he was a marine), he also would get defensive when i would look over at his phone when the screen lighted up and he saw no issue pratically drooling for other women in front of me
2026-09-16 15:27:31
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kat.q.s
kat 𖦹🐇 。⋆ :
Idk my husband has stuck with his same friend group from high school and there aren’t any girls in it 😭 & he works independently at work so he doesn’t rlly make friends. I don’t think that’s a red flag lol
2026-09-16 20:20:18
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prophetscrusade
Prophet🇻🇦 :
My wife actually wants me to have female friends, I just actively refuse. I just don't see the point in that when I already have a bunch of beautiful girls to hang out with at home (her and our daughters).
2026-09-17 10:09:30
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tealonger
tealonger :
I get so disappointed seeing high school level takes about how you can't be friends with the opposite gender. can we please just grow up already
2026-09-17 15:24:17
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thebugb0y
thebugb0y🌱 :
No because literally. If you think your man can’t control himself around other women, that’s a red flag on SOMEONE. You’re either insecure for worrying about it, or your man sucks and you shouldn’t be with him.
2026-09-17 12:20:35
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bigalove1899
BigLove2025 :
No, most guys don't have women. Friends cause they don't want to deal with the drama that it could eventually have. That's an emperor in the bottle and called it a day
2026-09-17 13:06:46
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art.of.defiance
🔥𝔄𝔯𝔱𝔬𝔣𝔇𝔢𝔣𝔦𝔞𝔫𝔠𝔢🔥 :
What if we have no friends at all lol
2026-09-17 15:34:52
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talltaleswithtal
Tall Tales with Tal :
THISSSS I’d also like to add: if you expect your boyfriend to be a dick to every woman except you: RED FLAG
2026-09-17 11:08:53
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nthegate
Jane ☮️ :
My ex boyfriend had several female friends. Most of them were lesbians, but not all of them. They were all really lovely! And he is a pretty well adjusted and good person, I’d give him a high rating if we had a way to rate our exes. I think it’s weird to want someone to effectively never talk to people of the opposite gender
2026-09-16 15:26:55
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minutemanmetal
Lycopene :
I'd trust my girlfriend around anyone, and she trusts me around anyone. We trust and respect each other. We respect ourselves. I love my relationship. I love my girlfriend 🥰
2026-09-17 11:22:35
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leahmichh
leahmich :
I have this theory watching people I grew up with in the Bible belt about this situation. a lot of heteros are taught its wrong to have opposite sex friends in a relationship. so you marry your love, and then 15 years down the road you meet an opposite sex person at work. theyre cool and maybe even a bit attractive. suddenly you're in a crisis because why am I attracted to them?! I'm married? this must MEAN something. clearly I am meant to be with them and not my loving partner of 15 years. WRONG. you never learned the difference between romantic and platonic attraction, or what it feels like to just like having someone around in a friendship, so it gets sexualized. they leave their partner and start dating the new person, and suddenly they're like "omg this is just a normal person. I want my old person back I made a mistake." I HAVE SEEN THIS HAPPEN SO MANY TIMES
2026-09-16 20:41:22
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crackinthewell
CrackintheWell :
I had almost all female friends before I married my wife, then slowly she had me cut each off one by one. Now she's leaving, and I get to try to rebuild some bridges, or start all over 🤷
2026-09-18 01:09:46
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supahfree
Supahfree :
Damn right. My wife ain’t had to worry about me, cause if she did that WOULD BE WEIRD.
2026-09-16 15:20:51
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