@meandmygirls_mm: Replying to @ssdri67 story time about couples therapy ✨ I’ve talked about this before but unsurprisingly I think it’s important that we talk about our experiences #singlemum #singlemumlife #therapy #couplestherapy #storytime

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vinciory
Vinci Ory :
What comments could he possibly make about your appearance? I think you’re so pretty.
2026-09-16 19:17:54
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msdelphiine
Kuda 🌹 :
ahh this man gives me a headache
2026-09-16 16:01:43
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theonlyjenner
The only jenner :
As a therapist, she knew, and I’m so sorry
2026-09-16 16:08:32
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pipercat3
Piper Cat :
My theory is when they’ve built up so much hate and resentment, yet the other person hasn’t done anything wrong - they actually really dislike themselves. You just become the target and distraction from the mirror they don’t want held up.
2026-09-17 21:03:11
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jazzapple3
Jazz Apple 🍎 :
Sounds like therapy worked wonders, she helped you get to the point to face the reality of your relationship and ultimately set you free and now you’re happier!
2026-09-16 22:09:29
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charlie_findingmeagain
charlie_findingmeagain :
Me again 🤣 We went to couples therapy and he waked in to the room and walked back out .. why? Because the room was painted PINK.. He said “they are clearly going to take your side” 🙄.
2026-09-16 18:19:41
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pompi_dompi
Pompidompi :
It’s insane how many men are like that… I recognize all of it, the coldness, the lack of empathy, the comments about my appearance when in reality I am fit and just have some normal loose skin after 2 pregnancies.. he hates me. Just trying to figure out how I’m going to leave
2026-09-17 07:17:51
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harrietrosie13
Harriet ✨️ :
I know that therapist was so hoping for you to split
2026-09-18 19:00:12
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oliviajade5
Olivia Jade 🏳️‍🌈🥰 :
imagine carrying someone’s child and they tell you they don’t love you anymore. it’s honestly so awful
2026-09-17 11:41:14
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doodleboodle1
Shabba :
How would he feel if one of his daughters got with someone like him
2026-09-16 17:05:46
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u448895422567
u448652904 :
Nah the ‘drift away’ was him priming a “reason” to his behaviour to excuse his anger and redirect the issue
2026-09-16 17:37:46
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teaandtelly
teaandtelly :
this is sooooo similar to me & my ex-husband. one session tho. he thought he could go in there and reel off a list of his grievances with me… and they’d be validated by the therapist. the therapist reeeeeally clocked this. she said to him: ‘what did you like about your wife in the beginning? what attracted you to her? what did you love? think back & tell me about those early days. his effort was almost minimal. unlike you though.. it would be SOME years, the loss of almost ALL finances as he devised a way to extract assets prior to any divorce. the loss of my daughter: again, he devised a plan with his family: BREAK me, push me over the edge, BE the ‘calm’ ‘rational’ one, make it so that I had no choice. I had NO HOME by the time he’d extracted the assets. it just didn’t dawn on me that he had it in him 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️even tho he had shown me MULTIPLE TIMES. I just thought that being COLD & CALLOUS.. WAS his personality. I didn’t think he would shaft me. finances & daughter.. and then.. just leave me in the gutter. The End. absolutely NO looking back from him. the only ‘karma’ for me has been that he’s since blown through 10-15 women, some were live-in.. & he can’t make anything work long term. so I guess COLD & CALLOUS *is* his personality but I’d assumed ‘hey, we’re married tho so that means it’s forever ANYWAY, REGARDLESS’. he pulled all the same stunts in subsequent women so *it wasn’t me it was him* but the cost was extremely high
2026-09-16 20:05:26
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suekelly92
suekelly92 :
I begged my ex to go to couples therapy and he said he’d never do it and he was never going to change. That was the moment I knew our marriage was over.
2026-10-03 06:32:44
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jo_up
Joanne Upton :
completely off topic but that jumper is lovely, it really suits you ❤️
2026-09-16 15:47:33
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mousehause
Mouse :
He left after 13 years recently. I suggested therapy and he flat out said “therapy is a silver bullet it won’t change how I feel” 🫩 I was thinking like you, how?! When did this happen?? Blindsided. 💔
2026-09-16 22:43:48
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nursepageywagey
Pageywagey :
I’m so proud of you, internet stranger, that you’ve healed enough to longer carry shame for how he behaved. How horrible of him to treat the mother of his children like that!! ☹️😡
2026-09-16 23:28:22
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kladani
💜 :
Did you feel supported by the therapist?
2026-09-16 17:19:21
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itsmekellsbells
Kelly :
Ah that sounds like such a traumatic period 😔 There is no love if there is no care... you deserve a loving partner. So glad you're out the other side and a long way down the road with a partner who cares for you ❤️
2026-09-16 15:59:56
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sharnenz
Sharne :
This happened to mr in therapy, like his truth came out and it hit me like a ton of bricks. why are they not honest
2026-09-17 02:46:08
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laurenknight29
Lauren Knight :
What did your partner now think when you told him what you had, well, endured? Was he find it as crazy as us? X
2026-09-16 16:18:55
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patmay07
PatMay07 :
that sounded like my last 14 months - it got worse and worse as those months progressed. but he was in his affair which was the same timeline. we had been together almost 40 yrs
2026-09-17 21:19:54
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scarletskyes
Natalie Ní Caoimh 🇮🇪 :
Would you consider going back to her for 1 or 2 sessions now, just for validation and closure - she maybe able to give you some helpful feedback, that might help heal the vulnerable part of you from those moments? Just floating it as an idea. [Red heart]
2026-09-16 18:34:06
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cathlou1311
Catherine :
I think I’ll have to take a break from watching these. They are so triggering 😔
2026-10-03 10:05:23
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taxilou
TikTokTaxiChick :
This could have been my 10yr relationship which I ended 2 months ago. Finally. It was exactly like this. Minus the outbursts x
2026-09-20 11:19:06
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lorem_ipsum31
september :
It’s so strange, because you’d think it would be the opposite, where based on his actions you’d assume the other person no longer loves you, and then this person is still claiming they do still love you, even if none of his actions show that.
2026-09-21 04:53:46
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