@kennyarmenta_: It can be that simple. #fyp #boundaries #coparentinggoals #stepmom #highconflictcoparenting

CallMeK. 🍒 :

It’s sad because I came in so young and naive. I’ve never had step-parents so I genuinely just wanted and thought everyone would get along.. Boy was I wrong..

Ariel Bruno :

Ugh yessss, 9 years in and I'm just now taking a step back. The mental load is not worth it. 😮‍💨

Buck and Tay :

Me trying to be the bridge between homes only caused my stepson to be caught in an unhealthy cycle of everyone getting along then nobody getting along on repeat for 5 years. I finally decided to trust my husband to parallel parent like he wanted all along lol. Now he deals with it all and I do not. I feel bad for him sometimes tho lol

NCT 🤍 :

13 years in. I needed this reminder tonight 😔🤍

Elle ⋆.˚⟡ ࣪ :

Took me 2 years. Apparently the youngest hates me now and doesn’t come over anymore because I told him to put his dirty dishes in the sink. Bio mum fucked everything, so I simply let go.

krisssten :

Needed this today

Alexa Magill :

Can’t be boundaries if he don’t let them happen 🤷🏻‍♀️

Breann West :

12 years in and I have finally started doing this. Best decision I ever made.

morgsss :

I want to this so badly but it’s so hard. I pray one day I’ll be strong enough to see that you can’t fix or nor change the person you’re dealing with

alisonmamabonusmama :

I couldn’t agree with this more! 💕

Allison :

Took me 8 years to figure this out.

Jordan Little :

I soooo needed this today! I’ve been trying so hard and need to let go a little to save my own peace

char.s2026 :

I wish I knew this 7 years ago. Don’t worry about the stupid shit and the narcissistic high conflict bio mom.

KA :

I was like this too in the beginning. Not anymore. Just love my stepson, thats all I can do. You cant fix the hcbm unfortunately she has to learn herself. 🥰

🌻Laura & Liv🌻 BroadwayBling✨ :

Feel this to my core girl!!! 👏💯🥹

yeehaw.26 :

Ugh I just gave up. His kids are college age and all they care about is making sure their mom is comfortable with no regard to my feelings. They also only contact their dad when they need something but he doesn’t see it.

Sherri T :

I'll take this advice.

Amanda :

The Pull Babe :

Your the best bonus momma I we could ask for 🥰

AshleyMegan Howell :

Same girl- same. We tried, we didn’t fail. We just moved on and focused on our family and the child/children involved.

mamma_bear_0 :

Same! This is a new concept I have been working on, and I truly wish I would have done it sooner [Twin hearts]

Liz 🌻🎨 :

Amen 🫶🏼

Cassandra Estrada :

This is the one!!!

May ✨ :

Yessss for sure. Many years wasted

Chandler Noel :

Amen sistah 🫶🏻