@thegratitudemind: Tell me if you've been here before. You lay out solid reasons and every fact...yet you can’t convince someone to change their mind. Beliefs formed by pain don't respond to logic. They respond to safety. It’s easy to think the people who "won't listen" are being stubborn. But could they be holding onto something that's bigger than the issue at hand? Once you see this perspective, arguing stops feeling like the point. #mindsetshift #perspective #positivepsychology
Sometimes it’s identity protective cognition working with loss aversion (sunk cost fallacy). Cognitive dissonance is a powerful thing.
2026-09-16 23:24:41
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gratitude mindset | shannon :
Is this about winning…or about understanding?
2026-09-16 17:20:36
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Jonathan Morris :
Such a good explanation 👍👌
2026-09-17 06:36:28
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Skeeter :
😍you are so incredible and loveable
2026-09-16 18:45:56
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kevinnietrzeba :
I feel safe with you
2026-09-16 22:57:15
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onlyclinton :
your voice is peaceful
2026-09-16 18:45:24
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Peter sheep :
That's something I had to hear today 👍
Thank you Very much!😘
2026-09-17 10:15:41
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I'mOnlyMed :
that's why you never tell them things. you ask them things. make them think. when someone gets the answer themselves, they will be more willing to accept it
2026-09-16 17:50:53
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Julian Paul Galbraith Goddard :
Beautifully put.
2026-09-16 21:46:39
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@namary_store101 :
You can’t change a deep belief with a better argument 🥺
2026-09-16 18:50:20
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G Dub :
As a friend or an associate, the best way to address a deeply held belief, is simply to pursue if their belief is really serving them
2026-09-16 17:31:48
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Joe :
What is your profession?
Respectfully
2026-09-17 00:15:19
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دافي :
nice quote Shannon
2026-09-18 03:27:44
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ProProvo64 :
They have to do and see it on their own all we can do is let them make their own discovery for it to stand with them 💯🥰❤️
2026-09-16 19:29:42
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Zdenek :
Definitely understanding and believing that turn the page is not about making things worse in our life's
2026-09-16 17:28:48
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Leangie22 :
SO TRUE!!💕💕💕
2026-09-17 04:03:55
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C Boo O Happy :
💯Deep
2026-09-16 20:12:23
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dandun :
understood, and thank you. people sometimes just can't help expressing what in their minds, in my mind!!! God bless
2026-09-17 03:11:29
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Alliard Vanté :
Believe sometimes are IDENTITY... forcing people to change there believes is very selfish because you could be right and same time totally wrong 💯
2026-09-16 20:30:09
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@Mario_demas :
so if someone thinks it fine to beat his wife, I should not try and make him understand that it's wrong....what if his sons sees this and now also believe this to be the right way to treat woman😏...
2026-09-18 05:16:33
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Brian Bandi :
This is deep
2026-09-18 07:34:06
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hiyeah :
Absolutely! It is the experiences we go through that teach us the lessons we believe in. It doesn't mean they're wrong or we're wrong
2026-09-18 09:17:34
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Shafawu Abdul Mumin 💜 :
Hmmm🥺
2026-09-18 09:41:19
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annie.liberationbiz :
words of wisdom, thank you. makes sense.
2026-09-18 08:27:30
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