Michael Renteria :
First off: my favorite couple!
Secondly: co-dependency essentially boils down to, like a Bella and Edward relationship, it’s unhealthy because she was going to die without him and him her. It’s not beautiful to let yourself rot if the other is absent. God forbid, if one of you were to die, do you think he would want you to stop living? Or would she want you to live your best life and if you desired, find a new love of your life to share your blessings with.
I think it’s more about interdependency. Where instead of being half and half of a whole person, where one of you is gone, you both die; to be interdependent is where he is 100% a whole person, and she too. Meaning, only one of you makes enough money, you can pay the rent always even if the other wasn’t there. Or, “ ugh I have to stay together with him because the car is in his name”
No, no! You can each live your life fully, you don’t need each other to survive, coming together creates an abundance not necessarily a completion. You’ll always have the choice to walk away, but what makes you guys beautiful is choosing each other every day because you want to.
2026-09-19 04:45:24