people have a cat room? my whole home is the cat room. he runs the show
2026-09-16 21:44:33
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Lindsey Wittenbach :
i fear all these are bare minimum
2026-09-16 20:10:12
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myyceliumm :
i feel like it’s okay to want a cuddly cat 😭 if it’s a deal breaker that a cat isn’t cuddly… just recommend one of your fosters that IS cuddly. it’s not that serious. they aren’t trying to disrespect a cat’s bodily autonomy. they just enjoy kitty cuddles and need a kitty who feels the same!
2026-09-16 22:14:09
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Foster mom :
I wonder if educating people instead of just denying them might be a better way to go. You know they are just going to go get a cat from somewhere else.
2026-09-16 20:15:59
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amanda7777 :
I'm sorry but cats don't belong on kitchen counters or tables
2026-09-17 08:57:26
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eronn :
I need your take on Caroline Calloway and how she treats her cat. 😂
2026-09-16 22:45:53
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livvy_dunst :
For scratching what I’ve found works the best is: keeping up with nail trims, having an assortment of scratching posts/mats around, keeping a clear cover on couch/cousins or just keeping them covered, clapping/saying their name/redirecting to disrupt the behavior when I notice it, and mostly just giving up and accepting it bc it’s their home and scratching is natural for cats.
2026-09-20 19:48:18
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Bella Smith :
I feel that all of these should be self-explanatory lol
2026-09-20 01:14:33
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Emily Wing :
my cat owns the house and I’m just honored she lets me live in it
2026-09-16 20:02:24
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Is It Real? :
Ok I didn’t hear a word you said with Dot snoozing there
2026-09-20 17:47:54
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Delaney :
Not mentioning making them an “outdoor cat” is criminal
2026-09-16 23:49:04
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espa :
I think it's interesting you are mentioning you want the adopters to have specific reasons for adopting the cat but also think that wanting a cat who is cuddly is a deal breaker. I would argue that "cuddliness," in a cat is often directly tied to their personality. Cats definitely are not an accessory and should be treated with care and respect, but people also view cats who are able to be held and malleable as really important things for various reasons, not just for their own comfort. For instance, I would want to adopt from a foster parent who hopefully does their best with desensitization because these can be extremely important things for washing cats, taking them to the vet, getting their nails trimmed, etc. In my experience, cuddlier cats often do better with these things. (I've fostered one or two who broke that mold obviously.) My cuddliest foster would jump into the shower with me when he wanted a bath. He was also a rescue and needed insulin and also did veryyy well with me administering medicine. Obviously those things aren't guaranteed with a cuddly cat but in my experience it DOES make things easier & I could understand why someone wouldn't want a cat spooked from being held, touched, etc. Personality and livability are verryyy important aspects of adopting. Cats show different forms of love than physical touch of course but there are other reasons to want that in a cat than feeling a need to touch their body; sometimes it's medically significant.
2026-09-17 02:37:39
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mpietrow :
My cats own my house, I just live here and work and pay all the bills. I would let my cats drive my car if they needed to.
2026-09-20 04:19:06
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millennial menace 🆘🇺🇸 :
Oh no wonder I’ve never had a problem adopting 😂 I’ve had cats my whole life. You asked what would be a deal breaker and I literally thought for so long and could only come up with issues that normally stem from something the owner is doing wrong so I don’t think I have any deal breakers lmfao
2026-09-16 20:56:34
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Sofa King Special :
My 10 year old cat decided last year that he is okay with cuddling. It was a long wait lol but worth it. He is now almost an annoying cuddler. 😂😂😂
2026-09-16 19:58:03
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ElizabethJennings :
You have the exact same color eyes. Obviously your biological child😂💙
2026-09-16 19:56:02
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emma.cowell97 :
unrelated but the green sweatshirt compliments your eyes so well!
2026-09-19 18:19:28
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LordSocks :
I tried spraying water once. My girl looked me dead in the eye and opened her mouth wanting me to spray it for her to drink. It became a game for us until I got rid of the water toy.
2026-09-16 20:20:48
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danielle.burton_ :
What would you advise to do other than a spray bottle? Not that I use them, but my orange boy has been LOVING the kitchen counters lately especially while I’m trying to cook. He’s only a year old so I’m trying to break the habit early but I don’t know what would be effective that doesn’t make him scared of me.
2026-09-16 22:05:50
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anayahlater :
i agree with all of these except for the cigarette smoking and wanting a cuddly cat. it’s not up to you to dictate whether or not a pet parent smokes cigarettes & also there’s nothing wrong with wanting a cat who cuddles. saying they want a cuddly cat doesn’t mean they plan on taking their autonomy, they’d just prefer to have a cat who would willingly want to cuddle.
2026-09-16 22:23:00
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girlyloot :
If my cat is on my counter I simply put them on the floor and say no and they stop LMAO
2026-09-16 21:40:00
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Lio | AF: k1ttenw0lf :
i would be interested in what to do instead of the water bottle. I thought that was okay/good until now and would love to hear more about what to do instead
2026-09-16 19:48:23
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Luna :
Obviously being not cuddly does not necessarily equate that they don’t bring you comfort but you saying you shouldn’t get a cat for comfort is weird. Like most people want pets because they bring them some form of comfort and want to nurture them.
2026-09-16 22:08:52
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GrimTheOzzy :
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with wanting a cuddly cat. I’m sure you have your reasons and that there’s a certain type of adopter you’re trying to avoid. But imo just because someone wants a cuddly cat doesn’t mean they don’t want to give the cat autonomy. If anything they’re searching for a cat who enjoys cuddling for a reason. I love cuddly velcro type dogs, so I looked for a dog that matched that. I don’t personally like shibas temperaments for example. There’s nothing wrong with looking for an animal that matches what you’re looking for ! I know i want my second dog to be more aloof then my current dog, there’s nothing wrong w wanting that either ! at least i don’t think so
2026-09-17 01:07:19
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