I’ve joined a women’s coffee bowling league. I’m a terrible bowler, didn’t think I even liked bowling - but so much fun and laughs - I’ve made some nice friends. I’ve also joined a walking club - more nice people - still new so not quite friends. You’ve got this, they’re out there. You will find your people.
2026-10-26 12:47:57
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Ash :
ok so go to the library. they run so many groups and you can see them online!
2026-10-26 15:15:39
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user6563722071079 :
At this age most adults have their friends and are not looking for new ones like we are. I feel awkward all the time.
2026-10-14 16:20:18
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K Marie Anthony :
Try gym or local help
2026-09-17 21:00:52
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kelliethebeadlover :
I literally just made a post on a local FB page trying to find some new friends. It’s brutal! All the “join a seniors centre” make me gag. I’m 67 not 85. Sigh.
2026-09-17 00:25:09
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slayover50ugc :
Get a dog. After I retired from work, I realized the only people I knew were the people I worked with. I needed some friends so I took my dog up to the off leash dog park and I swear that I made three really good friends in a short period of time. Having the dog is a great buffer for conversations and it’s an immediate recognition of something you have in common.
2026-09-17 10:33:11
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Lucy🇨🇦 :
I feel your pain. I moved to the city. I’m in three years ago and I don’t have a single friend. I volunteered for all sorts of events. I even volunteered for the symphony and met some really great people and when I asked if we could exchange numbers they looked me writing the eye and said “we don’t need more friends”. If I can sell my house, I’m out of here.
2026-09-17 01:51:56
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Claire 🇨🇦 :
Me too lol!! Where do you live?
2026-09-17 02:57:34
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lisalisa_lovin_life :
Girl! Where do u live? Im moving to a new city in Ontario and will be in the same position. If ur close. Let's meet for coffee. I will be in Fergus
2026-09-17 00:29:43
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Dncnqwn 🇨🇦 :
Look at the Meetup app! It works great for meeting people! I’m 60 and have met some great new friends!
2026-09-17 02:52:27
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Lisa-Altantis Hot Tub & Pools :
I feel like going to the gym or yoga is all the social interaction I need. Saying hi or nodding to the same people weekly. Even taking walks at the same time every day you see the same people and talk about the weather, say good morning. It’s way less pressure than real friend pressure
2026-09-17 11:55:54
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KMB :
see if FB has local book clubs or groups that meet up for movies concerts chats.
2026-09-17 18:17:40
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Amg1976RN :
I’m 60; most everyone I meet wants to over share their entire lives to me, but never ask anything of me or my life. It’s not worth it.
2026-09-17 18:43:24
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Windy Poston Queen :
55. It is hard.
2026-09-18 00:56:12
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Kerrilyn :
Ong I feel totally the same covid changed us
2026-09-16 23:28:00
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Angela :
That sounds like me
2026-09-17 02:51:09
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Ann Herman Erickson :
I feel the same way. I started a new job after being at one job for 22 years, that was 4 years ago and am still struggling to connect with the new staff. I turn into a golden retriever and I feel it doesn’t work!
2026-09-16 23:33:33
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lilliansaric :
Tell us where you are. Many of us looking! After a long marriage, divorce, many friendships just faded. Struggle is real!
2026-09-17 13:03:02
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pennymackenzie0 :
Try a class ! Ie a craft class because you have to focus on the task at hand which help with that whole middle setting thing . Or volunteering for something .Ideally something that requires a learning / training element again you have to focus on the task .
2026-09-17 05:54:04
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Leah M 🌞 :
I'm your friend 😁
2026-09-16 21:53:18
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Pillsbury girl :
I do understand. I’m retired after running a company for years, as in all I did was work. My employees were all young men. I am 68 and extremely lonely. I tried one tea that was to make friends and it was 80 year old woman with walkers.
2026-09-17 01:31:26
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GrouchyFrau :
I don’t try anymore.
2026-09-17 18:53:39
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Robyn :
I'm 50, people just ignore me I've started to believe it's me... I went to the library, and a walking group, I hate be walking lol. I now just talk to my dog's
2026-09-17 06:33:17
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Val Lovett :
I have no friends and I prefer it that way. Got tired of the trauma and the drama.
2026-10-13 11:36:51
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*T* :
My desire to make new friends is at an all time low. I tried really hard a few years ago and then figured out I like my own company the best!
2026-09-17 08:11:12
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