@coach.ryan0: Birthdays. Anniversaries. Holidays. The days that matter most suddenly become the days they “need space.” Important dates require emotional presence… and an unhealed dismissive avoidant often chooses an exit instead. After the fourth discard, stop calling it confusion. It’s a pattern. 🎯 #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #AvoidantDiscard #AttachmentStyles #ChooseYourself
Always started a fight around special days then blamed it on me.
2026-09-17 02:21:46
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Katie G :
Yup. My birthday. 😆
2026-09-17 23:10:57
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Adnan 🇵🇰 :
she left me when i got sick then i got better she came back, then a month after i got sick then she left then came back. these people have no soul
2026-09-17 15:49:20
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Claire Bear :
And they expect EVERYTHING from you in return!
2026-09-26 13:12:04
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Avan :
I call it the nightmare before xmas
2026-09-16 22:50:03
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Nurstink :
I don’t care why anymore.
2026-09-17 02:24:43
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MJ💋✨ :
Jewelry. And made sure everywhere we went that I wore it. He told everybody that he got it for me. It was really all about him and not about me my jewelry for my birthday
2026-09-17 00:27:19
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Dawn Nicole🇨🇦 :
broke up with me on my birthday and his birthday
2026-09-26 15:06:38
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Ally McBeal :
My birthday, aniversary, every month our Day, evade every deep question, yes he was an avoidant, and that makes me a anxious, is he coming back?
2026-09-26 16:41:20
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MamaB :
We fight on those days, but he never discards
2026-09-20 01:54:49
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Sarah Banda :
my sister's funeral...he didnt want to take time off work to support me
2026-09-20 00:23:29
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KrisHaven 💙 :
My discard came the day after my birthday, on which he did nothing
2026-09-17 20:55:00
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Ang :
the day as after Christmas...discard
2026-09-18 01:51:11
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🔥✝️TracyLeigh✝️🔥 :
This is why Im getting a divorce after 14 yrs
2026-09-20 19:18:37
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Amy :
I told him for a year leading up to my 40th birthday that I was something thoughtful and exciting as it was my 40th! I what did he get me? Nothing, not even a card. Our 7 year anniversary, nothing. Then I am the problem because I am hurt by it.
2026-09-17 12:02:23
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Hockeychick_21 :
Birthday Discard
2026-09-17 01:23:12
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