@coach.ryan0: Birthdays. Anniversaries. Holidays. The days that matter most suddenly become the days they “need space.” Important dates require emotional presence… and an unhealed dismissive avoidant often chooses an exit instead. After the fourth discard, stop calling it confusion. It’s a pattern. 🎯 #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #AvoidantDiscard #AttachmentStyles #ChooseYourself

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shay_bebe13
Shauna Saldana :
My husband just did this. Took off on my birthday. Said he’d be right back and went with his friends. Filing for divorce.
2026-10-06 05:22:25
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reneep623
reneep623 :
she left on our anniversary after 5 years needed a break wants to be friends no we can just co parent
2026-10-06 17:08:00
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deasiann
Deasiann :
They’re MOST present for their birthdays though 😂😂
2026-09-17 15:35:18
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shela.a2025
💕Shela💕 :
What about buying a gift that’s actually for them like tickets to a football game 😂😂😂
2026-09-16 23:24:56
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pinkypie9762
pinkypie :
he cheated on me the day before my birthday and of course got made because I found out and said I ruined my own birthday
2026-09-19 18:04:42
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user85345677784
. :
I have birthday today and everyone ignored me. No one called, no one texted. No one.
2026-09-17 17:47:16
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bethd860
BethD :
I had to buy my own presents because he said he was too busy
2026-10-04 00:45:35
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nanioziozi_67
𝓜 | 👩🏻‍🍳⚾ :
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2026-09-17 03:50:05
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imtheproblem.exe
🤍 Chasing Clouds 🤍 :
we don't even have an anniversary
2026-09-26 04:31:22
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ky.peninger
🌷𝓚𝔂𝓵𝓲𝓮🌷 :
Always started a fight around special days then blamed it on me.
2026-09-17 02:21:46
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katiegrn1
Katie G :
Yup. My birthday. 😆
2026-09-17 23:10:57
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ytadnanfn
Adnan 🇵🇰 :
she left me when i got sick then i got better she came back, then a month after i got sick then she left then came back. these people have no soul
2026-09-17 15:49:20
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claire.bear655
Claire Bear :
And they expect EVERYTHING from you in return!
2026-09-26 13:12:04
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avanm76
Avan :
I call it the nightmare before xmas
2026-09-16 22:50:03
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nurstink
Nurstink :
I don’t care why anymore.
2026-09-17 02:24:43
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iammelij
MJ💋✨ :
Jewelry. And made sure everywhere we went that I wore it. He told everybody that he got it for me. It was really all about him and not about me my jewelry for my birthday
2026-09-17 00:27:19
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glassrowstudio
Dawn Nicole🇨🇦 :
broke up with me on my birthday and his birthday
2026-09-26 15:06:38
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ally.mcbeal32
Ally McBeal :
My birthday, aniversary, every month our Day, evade every deep question, yes he was an avoidant, and that makes me a anxious, is he coming back?
2026-09-26 16:41:20
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foundmywings20
MamaB :
We fight on those days, but he never discards
2026-09-20 01:54:49
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sarahbanda4
Sarah Banda :
my sister's funeral...he didnt want to take time off work to support me
2026-09-20 00:23:29
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seekhavenforest
KrisHaven 💙 :
My discard came the day after my birthday, on which he did nothing
2026-09-17 20:55:00
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ang9309
Ang :
the day as after Christmas...discard
2026-09-18 01:51:11
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classybeach22
🔥✝️TracyLeigh✝️🔥 :
This is why Im getting a divorce after 14 yrs
2026-09-20 19:18:37
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amyr853
Amy :
I told him for a year leading up to my 40th birthday that I was something thoughtful and exciting as it was my 40th! I what did he get me? Nothing, not even a card. Our 7 year anniversary, nothing. Then I am the problem because I am hurt by it.
2026-09-17 12:02:23
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hockeychick_21
Hockeychick_21 :
Birthday Discard
2026-09-17 01:23:12
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