@i.wrote: “What does a woman do with the knowledge of misogyny?” Maybe the most unsettling part of becoming conscious of patriarchy is that you cannot become unconscious again. Once you begin to recognise the machinery, you start seeing it everywhere. You see it in the things you were taught to tolerate, in the ways women are asked to make themselves smaller, in the violence dressed up as love, in the ordinary rituals of being a woman. Robin Morgan, speaking in Not a Love Story: A Film About Por*******, sits with that realisation: what do we do once we know? Because knowledge is not always liberating in the immediate sense. Sometimes, it is grief first. Rage. Estrangement. A re-reading of your entire life. And then, perhaps, the difficult work of deciding what you will no longer call normal. #misogyny #women #feminism #womenrights
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Wednesday 16 September 2026 21:13:15 GMT
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𖣂 :
To be black female and conscious
2026-09-18 06:56:34
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Felicity :
If you’re not angry, you’re not paying attention
2026-09-23 03:20:44
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Masha R :
I call it continuous trauma. You constantly trying to heal it while simultaneously being re-traumatized by reality
2026-09-18 01:14:09
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Rita :
Black women deserve the whole world
2026-09-19 00:36:23
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doeflake :
This documentary was filmed in 1981 - but her words hit harder today than four decades ago 💔
2026-09-17 19:49:43
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powertowomen :
I hate the truth in this. we are angry women. we are triggered everyday and called hysterical but we know too much to turn back. stay strong ladies
2026-09-17 21:33:30
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Pink_Dolluwu :
Same with being a trans girl… we live in a world made for man :(
2026-09-23 15:04:55
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Helanym Echo :
im going to be angry forever
2026-09-18 03:00:50
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Mel🖤 :
my ex asked why I cried so hard watching barbie (I watched it with him) and I didn't know how to explain to him that it was reliving the pain of growing up and realizing how the world sees me because I'm a woman, how the world thinks that I'm just my uterus and that If I don't want to have kids or can't, I'm less of a woman, the pain of seeing that you can't stop something that hurts you, doesn't matter how loud you scream, how you ask for something as basic as your freedom, you are not a person to the world, and that just hurts too much, every day
2026-09-24 00:56:23
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Najma Raage :
Being a conscious Somali woman is a painful kind of curse: you understand the chains while everyone around you tells you they are bracelets. 💔
2026-09-23 11:26:49
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'=' :
💔 I am the only one in my village fighting misogyny I feel so lonely and angry
2026-09-23 18:27:59
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Rocío :
I am angry every single day, at society and men around me.
2026-09-23 18:13:14
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NAMNBVC :
i feel like being woke is a curse...
2026-09-23 19:31:47
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miri :
Great, now I’m crying.
2026-09-23 16:49:53
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jadelucydiamond :
My rage fuels me. It’s been the only way that I have learnt to survive.
2026-09-23 06:31:28
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Peisinoe 🧚🏾♀️ :
The way the glossed over the intersection of being both black and female
2026-09-23 16:33:13
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daddylonglegs :
It pains me that for as long as I live as a woman, especially in a country like South Africa, I have to remind myself to never forget this message. The rage never stops but the fight can't either unfortunately.
2026-09-16 22:41:56
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ꕤ。˚❀.ೃ࿔☽˚❁ tfaide 。∞︎︎˚☼♡.ೃ࿔˚☾ :
enduring pain isn't supposed to look or feel graceful.. plus knowing this much and keeping full sanity? challenge failed
2026-09-23 16:01:27
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wangeci. :
After having realized how men view us, I'm in constant rage😩and now I'm always triggered. What am I going to do with all this rage 😭😭
2026-09-18 15:48:55
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Kego :
‘Love the man that you live with furiously enough that they can change’ (paraphrased).. impossible
2026-09-17 04:56:24
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thatcatlady666 :
The point we’re at…
2026-09-19 06:32:01
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Josie🍀 :
I’m married to a good man. He is amazing. And I don’t know how to love him and also explain the patriarchy especially having three sons. The internal battle is real. It’s hard to explain the system without them feeling personally attacked.
2026-09-21 03:00:03
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Cuntry_Bumpkin :
I have stopped performing for the patriarchal gaze. I don’t find joy in any of it anymore bc my rage is so deep. Putting on make up, shaving my body hair, dying my hair, maintaining a thin body. Each time I don’t perform for the racist pedophilic patriarchy, a misandrist gets her wings.
2026-09-21 08:06:05
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Bia :
We really owe black women a lot more praise. They truly know more beaded solely on lived experience.
2026-09-18 20:37:21
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Supa Womban :
We alchemize our rage into something beautiful and powerful.
2026-09-19 18:48:51
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