@coach_marielle: A lot of women were conditioned to measure their value by whether someone chose them instead of asking what they were actually being chosen for. Chosen to be loved? Chosen to be honored? Chosen to experience reciprocity? Or chosen because you’re useful, accommodating, forgiving, nurturing and willing to carry more than your share? Being chosen is not automatically an elevation. Sometimes the real elevation is developing enough self-worth to choose yourself before accepting a role that requires you to disappear inside of it. #DivineFeminine #SovereignWoman #Deconstruction #Patriarchy #CycleBreaker
Yep!!! That’s why they had to romanticize marriage because if they truly showed the servitude that marriage is we’d never do it.
2026-09-17 10:11:14
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mynameisyaya :
That's why a lot of women once they become older, don't remarry and advise against getting married
2026-09-17 00:45:06
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NatimaNicole :
The greatest trick was them teaching us that men are to lead and we are to follow
2026-09-16 23:07:31
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bluejeanlady20 :
We were sold that marriage was the prize with the “happily ever after.” 😏
2026-09-17 00:10:30
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@gogus71 :
im waiting for a married person say," but the Bible said." 🙄
2026-09-17 06:45:45
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Sunflower :
They have been gaslighting us forever 😳 we are literally the creaters of life they should be serving us!! instead they gaslight us into that it is God who is the creater 😳
2026-09-17 10:23:28
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lunasolychio :
One day I decided to be a bitch to my ex husband and since that day I’ve been the happiest, healthiest, prettiest, richest 🔥
2026-09-17 00:57:40
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!!!! :
the crazy statement,there is power in submitting 🤣 Which power?the power to be abused
2026-09-17 10:09:12
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Adrianna Marie :
Yesssss I’ve been saying this!! We are the only species where the male chooses 🤯
2026-09-17 05:58:11
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shish real :
we're the mothers and it's very easy to change the program 👑
2026-09-17 06:23:02
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LexyFoxy :
This!! 😭. I’ve been brainwashed like this for too many years! So glad & peaceful to be out of this patern.
2026-09-17 09:34:56
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ToErr5 :
we all need to agree that being a married woman doesn't give you higher status or value than an unmarried woman...which can be hard to unlearn.
I grew up hearing that marriage was the pinnacle of womanhood.
Took years to realize it's complete bs.
2026-09-17 04:14:10
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Penguin :
It starts with a narcissistic father eroding their self esteem since birth….and that is just the beginning.
2026-09-17 00:34:22
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meemoh :
girll yess...I was recently having a conversation with someone and I said our mothers enabled abusive and irresponsible fathers because they viewed being favored by them as the prize ...its better to enable him and his filthy behaviour and seem agreeable to him rather than be against him
2026-09-17 07:58:13
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lettymark :
I’ve never been “selected” because I rejected the selection 👏
2026-09-17 09:09:45
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Prisca's perfumery :
Honestly, and I have been feeling so stupid the moment I realized that.
2026-09-17 09:27:51
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J_funmia :
But once you know, you know! I hope the younger generations figure it out a lot sooner
2026-09-17 00:23:44
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norflor :
Sadly they have been raising all our feminine ancestors to teach all the little girls that cooking, cleaning and attending to all of man's needs made us good women and staying in bad relationships and tolerating bad behavior made us good wives and never teaching us to take care of ourselves 😢 like we were unimportant or do not count because we are only women 😡
2026-09-17 04:15:23
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OG4B2020 :
If that ain’t the damn truth!
2026-09-16 22:07:01
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Gina Taina Linda :
I’m happy I haven’t married.
2026-09-17 01:01:00
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DeMïá👑😍 :
whew!!!! This is a whole 🎤 drop! 💯💯💯💯💯 talk to em! Wake em up!
2026-09-17 00:20:09
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Bethany :
that's alwsys amazes me😂
2026-09-16 23:23:22
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Cody Warren :
Ladies, the following was sent to me from a beautiful black queen even: Yesterday you had me soften up and submit to your energy, especially with how safe I felt, and I must admit, you’re a gentleman any woman would want to submit to, let alone I❤️...........This was the first time we hung out. nothing sexual, just hanging out and going on a walk...... you see, you just need to find an honorable man💯🙏
2026-09-16 23:51:51
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christie4463 :
what is it when we select them 🤔 what happened to partnership behind every great man is a good woman
2026-09-17 00:14:30
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Marydoll777 :
I will not serve which i created
2026-09-17 09:28:52
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