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danre1 :
i will rather choose a "mid" person over a more attractive person if they liked me, because just likeing me makes someone look better in my eyes
2026-09-16 23:28:47
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V❤️ :
I’d rather be single and life crying why no man wants me than to live life with a husband who settled for me and wants better
2026-09-17 16:06:43
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Gabriel Walsh :
its common to hear how women don't care that much about attractiveness and that's how I see this. it just the bro version of "I wasn't that into him but then he did X thing and I fell in love"
2026-09-17 00:24:59
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Dazai haruo :
same thing for men
2026-09-17 10:24:44
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noemia :
True... Although as a woman I do this with men too. I've gone on a few dates to give a chance to someone I felt meh about because they approached me respectfully and they looked decent enough that it wasn't an immediate definite no.
2026-09-16 23:42:54
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AllyJean :
This is the exact reason why I don’t approach first
2026-09-17 19:29:31
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mdb_34 :
Don't waste her time if u not feeling her imo
2026-09-17 00:06:14
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Ardit Bajraktari :
Nah. If you are not feeling it don’t
2026-09-17 15:37:34
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Dre :
YOU ARE OVER THINKING IT. The guy clearly says he's giving her a shot, and that's what he'll do. He is actually IMPRESSED she approached him. Two of my best relationships were with women who approached first; I was actually in love with one
2026-09-17 15:32:02
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Ignorance_we_trust :
noted I will stop doing this (didnt know it made ladies feel like i was leadinh them on)
2026-09-16 23:23:49
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theotherhappyplace :
I would rather be rejected by someone who thinks I'm mid. like. just don't waste my time. I don't need your pity
2026-09-17 20:56:08
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Leon Metzger :
yes, approaching men can be worth it though
2026-09-17 16:36:16
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Brightwellian :
Nah, I get it. It sucks when you put yourself out there but the other person really isn’t feeling it. They could say “let me give you a chance” but even then it doesn’t feel very good because, well, they’re not as into you as you’re into them. Even if it hurts less over the years, it still hurts. But I think everyone needs to get better about accepting rejection (a lot of men in particular though need to improve this skill the most) and just learn that, most of the time, it truly isn’t personal. Circumstances are often beyond our knowledge or control and when someone expresses disinterest, at least they are kind enough to respect your feelings with a proper answer. We (all of us, but mostly men) need to look at this rejection as a gift more than anything. It’s an opportunity for us to find someone who will genuinely be excited about being with us. I desperately want that for everyone, if that is something they want. So, men in particular: I hope you’re able to find someone who loves and accepts you and that you’re able to move through life understanding that rejections are not an indictment on your character but an opportunity for something greater. 😁❤️
2026-09-17 00:47:56
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Daddy4MuffinOnly :
"I feel like 9/10 times it doesn't work out" that's just what dating is right? I mean I'm married so maybe I'm wrong
2026-09-17 06:54:56
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Sebastián🍉🍉🍉 :
Just cause we won’t get married doesn’t mean Im stringing her along 😢
2026-09-17 09:59:03
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YoMert :
“Women would approach more if they didn’t have to go through the negatives of an approach.” This is pretty much a water is wet post.
2026-09-16 23:29:06
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ricachos :
but... this has always happened to men,being strung along for pastime just because we took the initiative
2026-09-17 12:15:41
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Nay :
tbf women are capable of this as well they can be as bad as each other 🤷
2026-09-16 23:54:27
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Feral_Fairy_Sparkle 🧚♀️✨🪄 :
It's like you're telling on yourself.
2026-09-17 05:15:12
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Sam :
I’ll never encourage women to approach men at all. Most men would get into relationships with women they never like to use them for YEARS.
2026-09-17 21:45:32
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Aroo :
،ك
2026-09-16 23:49:21
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DD1987 :
and this is why I don’t encourage women to approach men
2026-09-17 12:38:21
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