@relationalalchemy: Two blind spots can keep you trapped in narcissistic relationships: The first is waiting for them to finally see you—to understand your pain, recognize your value, and become capable of the relationship you’ve been fighting for. The second is fearing the relationship you would have to build with yourself if you stopped waiting. Sometimes a half-relationship feels safer than facing the loneliness, grief, and uncertainty on the other side. Freedom begins when you stop making your life dependent on their recognition—and start becoming someone whose own presence is enough to come home to. #NarcissisticAbuse #NarcissisticRelationships #RelationshipHealing #SelfWorth #HealingJourney

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aubrey4love
Aubrey :
my last relationship with a narc, she made me feel so seen in the love bombing stage. what kept me trapped when the abuse started was trying to get her to perceive me correctly again - defending and explaining myself when she intentionally tried to rewrite who I am.
2026-10-02 21:34:51
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niceneedles
niceneedles :
better than me by myself ✅
2026-09-17 04:28:56
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rileyylizabeth
riley elizabeth ✶ :
they see everyone else but you.
2026-10-02 14:10:37
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briskeedoodle
Ash :
I think this is a great fleshed out explanation of the dynamic. Unfortunately this played out within my marriage. I'm divorced now. 🙃
2026-09-17 18:29:28
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vvvictoria6
Victoria :
Oh I love thissss. It’s the shadow of NOT being selfish, getting smacked in our face 😝 Learning the healthy level of “selfish” vs self care, self love, self respect. Thank you so much for this I’m so proud of myself 🥰
2026-09-17 17:15:31
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erikaguided
Erika :
To the core, the best advice ever. I have experienced all these for myself, but yes, when struggling being half self.. it really challenging to see ourselves as the whole! Thank you! 🙏
2026-10-02 14:57:21
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kristen.b.mcc
kristen.b.mcc :
I appreciate your vids so much thank you 🙏
2026-09-18 02:12:22
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rain222333444
rain222 :
if they can self reflect then they probably aren't narcissistic enough to call a narcissist
2026-09-17 04:24:51
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brig1111
Brigitte :
My mom was a narc, I attracted them. Same energy different face me trying to resolve the childhood conditioning until I see the root.. it’s self abondonment to be heard, seen, loved ect. The other things (for me) I’ve seen I also projected my own self reflection, accountability, emotional maturity onto others and “they” projected their manipulation ect onto me
2026-10-02 18:08:21
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saraonpurpose
saraonpurpose :
This is so spot on and resonates so much 💯
2026-09-28 21:41:33
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beatlejuice701
Wild Leo ♌️ :
She said she had flying monkeys if that’s not a giveaway
2026-09-18 04:16:28
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racheljamesartistry
Rachel James Artistry :
🖤🖤🖤
2026-09-17 04:00:41
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justangelaj
Angela Jacob Rivers :
👏👏👏
2026-10-02 08:55:57
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