@mindful.by.b: I don’t wish this pain on anyone but if this sounds like you / your relationship right now, I’d love to help you sift through the thoughts, facts, and stories around it all so you can make the most aligned decision for your life ❤️ #relationshiplimbo #feelingstuck #relationships #heartbreak #Love
sort of going through this..he’s great, he’s attentive, he’s loving, but our communication and how we get through conflict is so exhausting it’s killing our chemistry
2026-09-17 17:46:20
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b.ambiiii :
These are arguably the hardest relationships to leave
2026-09-17 09:06:41
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Jana K :
The worst is, when you know they have the potential but aren't doing it.
2026-09-18 14:23:28
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XOXO :
I left my boyfriend bc of this. And he doesn’t understand why. Before I left I had the same conversations with him over and over again. He cannot fathom why I don’t want to be with him. I love him. But I’m not fulfilled. 😭
2026-09-17 11:51:31
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Violet :
I realized I was asking him for things he did not have the emotional intelligence, patience, or ability to provide. It was not fair to either of us.
2026-09-17 17:29:04
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Lindsay :
This is the worst place to be. Walking away from someone you are still in love with because you know you deserve more is a different kind of heartache
2026-09-17 14:32:36
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𝕭𝖆𝖚𝖙𝖎 :
Stopped apologizing for having boundaries thanks to "The Peace You Keep Giving Away" by Claire Morgan
2026-09-21 14:55:30
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Leah Elexis 🤍 :
Love is never enough.
2026-09-18 06:33:40
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BlueAzul0212 :
It’s a lack of growth, it’s always a lack of growth 😩
2026-09-17 12:58:55
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For Love With Love ♥️ :
The mistake in any relationship is focusing on someone’s potential. You either love them as they are or maybe you don’t truly love them at all. Because if you are only seeing their potential, that IS the fantasy, not their reality.
2026-09-17 04:29:42
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barrybabe :
Leaving my marriage because of this. I adore my husband, but we have zero romance in our relationship. He's not interested in making my life any easier. I refuse to wake up one day and wonder if I could've found someone who loves me the way I love them.
2026-09-18 12:13:09
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dej :
And it sucks being the woman because we’re the only one who can see it so we HAVE to end the relationship. So fucking unfair.
2026-09-18 15:18:47
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MASSI :
I used to have this mindset but recently I learned that not everyone is gonna love you in the way that you want to be loved. For example, my love languages are words of affirmation and physical touch but my boyfriend‘s love language is acts of service so just because he doesn’t show pda with me doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love me. He shows me in his own ways that he loves me and that’s something that I’ve learned. I do tell him that I feel like he’s not capable, and we have conversations about it and we both grow and learn and he takes into account what I have to say and improves and I think that’s really important in all relationships. Stating those wants and communicating the lack of alignment for them to actually make change which takes practice and patience.
2026-09-17 13:42:23
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Ria_neeka :
Walked away from my ex because of this
2026-09-22 07:00:29
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mama.nixx💖⚡️🖤 :
especially difficult when you have a baby with them
2026-09-22 05:23:38
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talitachantel3 :
I would randomly ask, so when are we going on a date, when are we going to dinner… several times for the past few months. Kept on asking… it was always when he got moved. However the time for him to move to his new place kept changing. I got tired of waiting. In a girl I expect things, to be spoiled and treated as such. He was amazing with communication and his feelings but love wasn’t enough. Told him call me when he finally moved.
2026-09-22 07:26:48
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kia.girlhacks :
It is the hardest kind of relationship to leave. Just make me hate you 🥺😂
2026-09-22 07:36:27
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maddy 💫 :
broke up with my partner recently because of this, it’s the most heartbreaking thing
2026-09-20 08:16:39
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Camiza87! :
The sad thing is they will never understand what you are saying
2026-09-18 13:14:53
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Melissa :
I walked away from a 10-year relationship like that. Decided to choose myself. Found my now-husband later on and he shows up in EVERY way. ❤️Be picky.
2026-09-17 13:38:15
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CarbonatedDemonBubble :
Sometimes a relationship just runs its course, it’s no one’s fault, but just love is not enough
2026-09-17 12:28:26
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earl john :
A person can want you so deeply and still not love you well.
2026-09-18 14:32:28
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swirleina 🪩 :
I have emotional needs that are being seriously abandoned. I’ve had the conversations 100 times. I’m so done with it.
2026-09-18 08:16:02
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8675309 :
Know that I can’t repost, but I was here
2026-09-18 03:22:50
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user6719947101124 :
be VERY careful with this kind of mentality, because it's 90% ego. yes, people grow differently, but relationships aren't about perfect alignment, they're about respect and reciprocity and they're precisely about being there for people even when they can't be there for you, as long as they're not toxic. this belief that you've outgrown someone is just your ego tricking you into thinking that you're better than someone else, because it's very easy to hide the reality from yourself, that you're just as flawed as them, if not more. and if you start thinking this way and they don't, you're the one who is lesser, because it means you haven't done the work to love them and you just expected it to happen magically, like a child.
2026-09-18 07:09:12
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