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♡max♡ :
i agree with this, but also sometimes people twist your words or something and get hurt coz they understood what they wanted to. and its hard so always be sorry and aknowledge you "hurt" someone when you didnt do anything
2026-09-17 02:15:45
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Thorfinn Saint Yves D. Zoldyck :
Agree and disagree ngl
2026-09-17 19:03:22
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chain :
I always say if you are playing around with a gun and accidentally shoot it you still shot a gun, if you hurt someone even by mistake you still hurt them
2026-09-17 00:32:01
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Marshallmatters :
I completely agree, but it doesn’t mean that they’re right in their hurt. If they get hurt over tiny things that’s a problem on them. Also, if they’re hurt when you’re trying to help that’s on them too.
2026-09-17 17:31:59
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𝔚𝔬𝔬𝔡𝔶 :
I agree, but you then also cant tell me how I meant or intended what I did, I do think it’s important to meet in the middle “I did not intend to do ____, and I understand how you feel and will do better in the future”… perspective is everything and how the other person intended it to come off should allow them some grace if they didn’t mean to hurt you in some way
2026-09-17 16:45:05
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trin :
But also just because it hurt someone’s feelings doesn’t mean the action was wrong, sometimes doing the right thing is painful.
2026-09-18 18:45:19
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Ψ Junø Ψ :
I think people get confused. Hurting someone’s feelings doesn’t make you a bad person if you didn’t do it on purpose, humans are complicated and sometimes we say things we don’t know will hurt others. It’s better to just apologize and explain your intention so you don’t hurt them again in the future than get defensive and make them feel belittled ngl as someone who deals with sensitive people
2026-09-17 16:54:10
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Between The Worlds2 :
why so good 🥹🥹
2026-09-19 07:02:40
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Adw :
I admitted, apologized, and changed my actions, I asked the same from her and nothing happened
2026-09-18 04:50:06
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Mikayla Pugh :
🙏 pure art
2026-09-20 10:18:39
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Basil 🍂 :
nah I've lived that lifestyle and all it does is make you the perfect person to take advantage of. call people out on their bullshit. burn those bridges.
2026-09-18 14:26:38
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𝑩𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒂⋆˚꩜｡ :
I know, and I did take accountability and apologize and take a step forward to change but I still feel like a horrible person
2026-09-17 01:04:12
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Nanlife2.0 :
Not helpful
2026-09-20 12:39:21
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emoglobin🥀 :
Yeah absolutely not lol . This is a manipulators favourite bs logic to weaponise as it hands them the full power to decide what you are accountable for valid or not…
2026-09-19 23:39:21
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Let It Happen🪐 :
People feel hurt for no reason you could be the nicest person alive and somehow you hurt someone people are just sensitive
2026-09-17 16:41:07
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anknowitallnerd :
Idk I’m not apologizing over something dumb
2026-09-18 20:34:49
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FatBoy?? :
so funny! ⭐
2026-09-20 04:31:37
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Jazzy :
I think it depends on the context. If the hurt feelings came reasonably then yes by all means hold that person accountable. If the hurt feelings came from a place of impossibly unreasonable standards you can’t expect people to constantly conform to those standards. Super simple hypo- someone is super independent and gets hurt or offended if the door is opened for them. Unreasonable, unless the person opening the door for them had prior knowledge of this standard.
2026-09-18 00:07:31
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rgj_3105 :
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2026-09-17 00:56:29
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☆alyssa☆ :
agreed, although some people look for reasons to be offended / misinterpreted EVERYTHING. at that point I just stop interacting with them
2026-09-17 15:11:36
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It’s Mira :
It doesn’t matter if you didn’t intend on hurting them either.
2026-09-17 03:14:32
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Hunter :
Anytime I would spill my feelings I got told “I’m tired of talking about them.” “You always act like the victim”
2026-09-17 03:12:01
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Lamborghini :
You also have zero obligation to gaf. That’s on them for being so weak. Unless you did something truly outrageous, ignore people like this.
2026-09-17 08:37:33
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yourmiaaaaaaa :
My mentality ever since. If so comes and tells me i hurted them, it is my fault they felt this way no matter if i got intention or not. Trying to defend myself makes zero sense cuz what done is done and i’m not them to feel the feeling.
2026-09-17 06:27:24
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lesbianchimichanga :
my friend and i just got into a fight cause we both hurt each other i decided to be the bigger person and apologize i didn’t want to fight so i just dismissed how she made me feel and she still left me on delivered 🙁
2026-09-17 06:21:10
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