@officialbenmatias: How toxic parenting affects adulthood #benmatias

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akadain
Akadain :
I told my mom I had depression once and she tells me it was just in my head. last time I ever opened up to her.
2026-09-17 05:04:53
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chuckmags
ChuckMags :
Oh, so is this why every accomplishment feels like it's nothing to be proud of, and that I *should* have accomplished it?
2026-09-17 16:38:49
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midnightvixen24
Denise :
My mom always told me I was having a pity party for myself. That’s why everytime I cry or even open up to anyone about how I’m feeling I feel like I’m getting on peoples nerves cause I’m making it all about myself. 😞
2026-09-17 14:31:02
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itsoutofcontext
D :
My dad told me “make sure you tell the therapist the right things and you dont have to tell him everything”.
2026-09-17 14:50:04
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christineodonnell24
Christine 🔥 :
this is literally me and I didn't even realise until I saw this video 😭💔
2026-09-17 01:12:51
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crazypersonh_21
Crazypersonh :
Yall that are sayin that this stuff isnt toxic clearly didnt grow up like this and be happy about that
2026-09-17 21:44:06
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grim.reaper4405
Clone Forge Customs :
The one about telling the truth and “ not “ getting in trouble is so real. I am very sensitive about what I tell people now and no one person knows the full truth
2026-09-17 22:05:15
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brandoncasey918
brandoncasey918 :
My mom when I tried to take myself out didn’t believe I had mental illness until around my 2nd or 3rd time of trying. Then she researched my diagnosis. Add that with not being diagnosed with autism until a few years ago. My childhood was abuse everything u could imagine 😢 I’m still here though 💪
2026-09-17 21:42:59
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ceramic3856
Jacob Thomas :
Getting told you don’t need to cry every time someone says something u don’t like isn’t toxic that’s called a hard truth😔
2026-09-17 04:05:38
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fallenbrendan
Brendan 🎭 :
I got told man up now I dont cry at funerals or attend them. sorry not sorry
2026-09-17 16:51:51
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ricosinmiedo
✞Rico✞ :
This video fr hits me hard but gotta keep strong cause been told everything in my childhood an now as a 28 yr old man I’ve come to learn that I was the issue in childhood and will continue to feel like a problem as an adult. Keep up the great content brother. Maybe 1 day I’ll be able to fully heal from the trauma
2026-09-17 21:03:21
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tx_truckr_80
TX_TRCKR_80 :
Gotdamnit Ben!!!!! I didn't think about the connection.
2026-09-17 19:57:19
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tony.eltringham
tony eltringham :
Hey man sorry to bother you but could you check what I sent you
2026-09-17 01:12:48
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boagokwenakgosi
BoagoBG :
" hey just tell me the truth, you won't be in trouble" " tell me the truth, i won't get mad at you " "i already forgiven you, just tell me the truth " ... and they ask me why am so quiet and distant when they are the ones that made me that way. I still haven't forgiven my parents for that 😭.
2026-09-17 06:48:30
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deanrawlins23
Dean Rawlins🇿🇦 :
that's my parents, and today I'm 37 and it affected me as a person
2026-09-17 05:48:31
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tetyana_andronova
Tetyana Andronova :
Damn, this brought back way too many memeories...to everyone out there who had parents like this growing up or have been through these types of situations...you're not alone...and don't let them define who you really are...I'm still tryna find myself after I got out but it is worth every second. Stay strong my fellow human beans...you are not alone and you are all worth it and beautiful.
2026-09-17 06:26:55
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lucari0ssj93
Anubis Ramirez :
I'm breaking the cycle. 😢 Makes me proud my kids will never feel what I felt.
2026-09-17 05:36:56
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toxicvampire33
ToxicVampire33 :
i can relate sadly
2026-09-17 03:29:34
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sheep.for.jesus
Sheep For Jesus :
I needed this to remind my self to speck love over my kids
2026-09-17 05:38:09
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shelbyhowell00
Shelby :
When I was a teen I became suicidal after finding out my stepmoms brother had been mo/@$!ing me … my stepmom took me to a cemetery and asked me where I wanted to be burried.
2026-09-17 12:57:57
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greatducksoffire
TheAverageDuck :
Wait... what...... not me just realizing my childhood was toxic....
2026-09-17 04:40:00
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adadnamedrory
adadnamedrory :
Woooof I still have a lot of work to do
2026-09-17 16:33:18
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11leigh_shoe24
11Leigh_Shoe24 :
Huh, didn’t realize my childhood was that bad…
2026-09-17 05:20:42
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racerx7889
Dis Josh :
I needed this today as a reminder. thank you
2026-09-17 13:12:01
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boneslamma789
Boneslamma789 :
* off to fix the inner child.., maybe give her a hug
2026-09-17 02:49:03
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