rachelborngreat(cont.creator) :
Bros, you took her from a situation where she was learning to fend for herself and started giving her money. Now, if she is not willing to humble herself and learn a trade, you need to ask yourself: how will she be willing to compromise and work together with you when you eventually marry her?
As for her brother, allow him to learn how to fend for himself as a man. Don't spoon-feed him. He needs to learn responsibility, independence and how to build his own future.
Also, think about the house they are currently living in. Eventually, it may become their family home, and if you continue with the marriage, you may find yourself under pressure to build another house for yourself and your own family.
Bros, you need to take your time and redirect the whole process. Everything is moving too fast. Let her learn a trade, develop herself, understand financial responsibility and learn how to stand on her own feet.
Sometimes, when someone starts receiving money too easily, their attitude toward money and life can change. If you really want to understand someone's character, watch how they behave when money and comfort are involved.
And please, don't focus only on physical beauty. Beauty is good, but inner character, humility, responsibility, financial discipline, respect and willingness to grow together are much more important when choosing a life partner.
Take your time, bros. Don't rush the process. Give both of you the opportunity to truly know each other before making a lifelong commitment.
2026-09-17 10:23:58