Its annoying to read a story to find its only an advertisement for a book 😏
2026-09-17 16:22:34
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Fuqweeta :
Thank you for this post. I lost my father five years ago this past August. I cried mostly because we didn’t have a relationship, and I spent years wondering why. I often felt like he hated me—from the way he looked at me to the way he spoke to me, as if I weren't even worth a conversation. He treated my cousins and my brothers better than he ever treated me. He spoke to my brothers like they were human and truly his own children, though they were adults and some were already married before he treated them that way. He was a good man to outsiders, but he wasn't a good husband, and my mom never really forgave him for that.
To this day, I wish I could go back and fix things. I wish he could have said 'I love you' instead of giving me those hurtful looks. I wish I could go back and just make him hear me out. The last few years of his life, he was very different from the man I knew as a child. I just wish I could have let the past go and spoken to him the way I wanted to. I hope Allah forgives me for that.
2026-09-29 00:10:16
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8_fakiira_58 :
Your intuition and islam told and taught never to go against your parents will !!! that was enough,
the rest leave with Allah and keep making Dua's reciting quran and tasbiya and convey the sawab, Rewards , to your parents,all parents , all Muslims departed with faith , 🤲 may Allah grant forgive all short commings and all JANNAT AL FIRDAUS in the neighborhood of our beloved prophet MUHAMMAD ﷺ 🤲 AMEEN AMEEN AMEEN 🤲 AMEEN YAA RABBAL AL'AMEEN SUMMA A'AMEEN 🤲 🥺🤲🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
ALLAH HUMMA SALI ALAA MUHAMMAD WA ALAA AHLE MUHAMMAD ﷺ 🤲 AMEEN 🤲
🌹✨🌹✨🌹✨🌹✨🌹✨🌹✨
2026-09-28 23:31:33
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as a parent he should have spoken to the daughter knowing she is hurting inside. it would have made the bonding more strong and child gets more confidence then. one should also teach the kids reasoning behind the decisions parents make so that kids learn decision making as well.
2026-09-17 16:49:05
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Shai :
Parents are obliged to give reason they can’t simply just say yes or no both answers have to be met with an explanation and reason
2026-09-20 04:19:49
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Bidibibadaboo Beanie Boo :
sorry but communication is important. asking why he said no should have been your first option.
2026-09-17 16:01:47
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waffle vlogs :
After istikhara if the path was closed for me, i would have thought thats my father’s denial is the answer of my istikhara and i would not hold any grudge towards my father, because if your istikhara is accepted by Allah then denial r acceptance either one is from Allah. Because the result of istekhara isn’t accepting any thing you asked to Allah, the result is only that ever will happen to you whichever is best for you (not which you asked for)
2026-09-18 23:05:55
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Shaq Daddy :
What i learned from this, is to have better communication with your kids, he didn’t have to keep that from her, she didn’t have to resent him, they could have had a better relationship before he died. Nothing is worth holding back, talk to the ones you love, forgive and forget because we don’t know how much time we truly have
2026-09-21 02:43:19
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dhulkifl25 :
A father is the shield for his family many foolish children realise that too late…
2026-09-17 15:56:00
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Mayssam Kataya :
Beautiful
2026-09-29 01:43:30
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Pashtana .xo :
I think when your in the love bubble it is very hard to let go without reason . Love takes time to get over aswell especially if you think you have found someone perfect.
2026-09-17 11:07:40
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5corpion76 :
That will be the only man in your life that wants you to be truly happy and secure, the love is unconditional and will hurt himself and will go hungry so you don’t have to all for that kiss on the forehead and a warm hug!!!
2026-09-17 14:37:03
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Maeva_me :
Is any men worth cutting your relationship with your dad? Nooooo, never. Even he was a great man.🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️no man will love you like your parents ever.
2026-09-21 00:25:05
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Misfit :
Yes alhamdulillah followed my parents not my heart best move alhamdulillah. Now I have an absolute beautiful loving wife and 4 beautiful kids. Parents never think wrong for us. Yes there humans they can also make mistakes but when it comes to choosing your partner we get it very very wrong and in my case they go it very very right.
2026-09-17 19:53:33
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kaidodonquixote :
People need to understand istikhara properly it is not getting a dream to tell you what is the right choice to male
2026-09-23 15:22:47
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Mahnoorbridal :
With age comes wisdom what we know now we could nver comprehend in our younger self’s. Go easy on urself. Ur parents love u regardless of our stubbornness. May Allah swt mke it easy for us all n keep us guided under his protection and u divine mercy on our parents souls. 🤲🤲🤲
2026-09-18 09:51:00
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Longo :
I wish my dad said No.. I chose who to be with but I wish they stopped me
2026-09-18 15:32:35
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Scroll & Shop :
Only a father truly wishes for his child to be greater than himself.
2026-09-18 19:20:35
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koko56 :
yes, I would and did. i asked my dad for his approval. because dads have a gift to see things we can't. as a parent and granparent myself now, my husband and I have this now. your parents love you more than anyone
2026-09-19 08:28:12
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Sikkandir :
Yah Rab grant her protective father forgiveness and jannatul firdous...A Real Dad...Ameen...
2026-09-19 12:45:40
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Queen 97 :
may allah help you passed this period dear , it must have been really hard ,my prayers to you and your dad, just know that he must've understand that you were hurt by his decision that why you acted that way , 🤍 my heart goes to you dear, stay strong
2026-09-17 10:52:43
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Zahara 1313 :
very sad for you get stronger and more on keeping family out if they don’t respect your feelings
2026-09-25 07:50:00
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mehdi bank :
YA ALLAH... YOU HAVE REALLY MADE ME CRY...
2026-09-23 14:50:00
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Serene H240✨ 🍉 📚⛰️ 💖🎶💖✨ :
I feel like you deserved an explanation. Nothing can buy back that time you lost. However this is how we learn in life and these experiences shape us. I hope you can take this moment to reflect on how this will shift your mindset moving forward. It was meant to happen for a reason. Accept that. May Allah light your father’s grave, forgive his sins and elevate his soul to the highest level of heaven.
2026-09-21 19:14:52
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