@growwithkaela: Whenever my ex DA and I would have an amazing time together or have a deep conversation, I started to say with a smile, “please don’t get weird tomorrow..” And he’d giggle, knowing exactly what I meant. But, he couldn’t help it. For the next few days he was there physically, but emotionally elsewhere. This is how DAs regulate their nervous system after too much closeness. It’s not to intentionally hurt you, but it doesn’t justify you having to feel confused either. Even when you do understand the pattern, you still deserve consistent, unconditional love. ❤️

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mfbwestonma
Scorpio girl :
Mine deactivated for 18 days with another woman on an Island in Indonesia. When he got back I showed him to my door.
2026-09-17 19:27:19
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bubba_downs1
bubba_downs1 :
“3-12 business months”
2026-09-18 20:18:53
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irinatraveler
April :
ah that's why they completely change after vacation together
2026-09-18 07:42:14
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captaincavegirrrl
Captaincavegirrrl :
I got the ick when after 6 mo break up I reached out and we chatted a bit, flirt, dirty then found out he was seeing someone. Why talk to me then? Don’t want to be with me, but want me to be a side chick. No thanks. I’m sad, but eew
2026-09-18 02:37:38
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3meremere23
3MereMere23 :
Got my nervous system wreaked so bad that now I think I have become the avoidant...
2026-09-18 02:21:00
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thelovealchemist444
TheLoveAlchemist🇨🇴 :
This explains A LOT!!!!…. I got stood up every single time. 🥲
2026-09-20 09:35:15
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ormaybeme
Not me :
Idk 3-4 for days to chill after intense weekend together seems ok, not avoidant.
2026-09-17 20:14:03
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beachbabe512
beachbabe512 :
You’re the only one tracking the pattern🤯
2026-09-19 10:52:18
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carolinanegronn
carolinanegronn :
This makes so much sense! Thank u so much
2026-09-18 11:17:51
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mynameisduey
Kerri Boo :
This makes so much sense
2026-09-17 19:09:46
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marbie8248
Marbie :
On day seven 😭😭😭
2026-09-17 14:32:11
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norel821
NormaElisa♐️🇺🇸🇳🇮💃🏻 :
I started asking for more communication then I get blocked then unblocked
2026-09-17 21:52:13
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shploofs
Shploofs :
He told me he’s trying to figure out what his Brian and heart want. I told him that uncertainty isn’t my waiting room.
2026-09-18 12:42:04
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ddini500
Diane :
This is so accurate
2026-09-18 04:04:24
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saturnis.fbx
saturnis.fbx :
I’m good no thanks, never again
2026-09-18 18:33:07
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real.soul1111
real.soul1111 :
He made a comment about him going to hook up with someone else and I thought he was joking. Nope and in fact told me to go sleep with other people too, he wouldn’t care he said 🫠
2026-09-18 00:39:42
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letbabylonburn
letbabylonburn :
You make so much sense
2026-09-17 16:30:11
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alluneed411
AllUNeed114 :
this has been happening to me constantly for that last 9 years smh
2026-09-17 17:47:00
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the.eclectic.witchcraft
TheEclecticWitch :
on day , like 300 .. idk ive been blocked by them on everything
2026-09-17 17:35:04
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vani11aw00ds
Lilac Hazel :
For severe Dismissive Avoidants, their vulnerability hangover lasts around 2-4 weeks 😳.
2026-09-18 08:01:22
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sailorblue13
SailorBlue :
💯 Facts
2026-09-19 09:44:45
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b4nnedchkn
Sc0li0sisQu33n :
Never again I’m 3 years in he got us a house promised marriage I’m so drained
2026-09-18 20:55:07
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socially.lizzy
Miss Lizzy 🎀 :
spot on...😳🙆‍♀️😂😂
2026-09-18 15:35:41
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mario.gee01
Mario Gee :
What did she call it after we got close, um yeah self care, that's what she called it.. Self Care. She disappeared for 3 business days.
2026-09-19 00:11:25
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foundmywings20
MamaB :
Over and over in 25 years
2026-09-18 17:44:44
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