I always tell people on the second or third date and I was very surprised how some people react like I’ve just told them something mundane and it never gets mentioned again.
2026-09-29 05:18:39
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Cameron :
Got broken up with while going through chemo because she said it was “too much”
2026-09-25 22:38:34
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FIFI :
Dating is the last thing on my mind
2026-09-28 17:43:22
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DiosWRLD :
“What have you gotten up to recently” not much just some CT scans and blood tests you know the usual
2026-09-19 21:30:21
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maggiekchacha :
No I get so caught off guard with the what’s that scar question - life isn’t fair ☹️
2026-09-24 00:56:09
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Ozzy :
The worst thing about it is - cancer makes you completely independent and mentally very strong, so very hard to let someone into your life again
2026-09-20 13:32:33
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Sarah | TNBC Thriver ❤️ :
My boobs look freaky af. I’m not dating again. I’ll just stay alone 👍🏻
2026-09-19 14:22:13
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🧿 :
I just straight up tell them once we start talking. That way no wastes their time. I had Uterine Cancer, and I think the hardest part of the conversation is about having a potential future like having a family because I’m just at high risk. Even though I’m cancer free, the what if’s are still in the back if my head. Even if it’s just something causal and I’m not in the mood it’s actually really I’m in pain and some guys don’t fcking understand🙃 what got me to be straightforward on talking about the cancer is when I first started talking to a guy after being diagnosed he told me I was just better off killing myself 😂 because I decided on a different route on treatment than what HE WANTED me to do or be on
2026-09-24 17:07:29
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Holly E. O’Neill 🖋️ :
I know this obviously is not the same but I am going back to uni after two years out because of health issues (primarily related to my reproductive system) and I am so nervous to meet classmates like I am way too awkward for this
2026-09-17 16:05:36
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Tumour killer 🎗️ :
Non-cancerous brain tumour for me. Same problem. It’s such a taboo subject in dating and the cause of many failed dates. Between having a patch of hair missing because of the radiation and the scarring I’m a lost cause 😂
2026-09-17 17:43:33
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Chase :
You’re bringing it up on a first date? 😭
2026-09-18 23:36:03
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Cayman 846 :
I just don’t care about anything anymore I’m having an existential crisis
2026-09-19 22:01:07
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🎗️Joseph🎗️ :
I ain’t ready for that😅
2026-09-24 17:18:14
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cosmicchloe.creates :
It’s rough !! Going through cancer in a relationship & the change in intimacy is really hard too
2026-09-26 01:46:44
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Dulce :
Not even that I try to avoid it but the most random conversation can lead to the oh yeah I had cancer conversation 😭
2026-09-24 12:01:04
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NicolleC :
Getting undressed for the first time since my surgery and having no nipples was insane 😂 I am too lucky enough to be with someone who looks past it all 💙
2026-09-21 17:40:40
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Liv🩵🏛️🎗️ :
I’m not ready to explain that I’ve only got one ovary so we’re gonna have to do ivf with my eggs that are frozen already 😭
2026-09-23 15:49:57
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Nathan Wood :
I fully understand this, I have so many scars from surgeries I've had, plus stoma bag, it definitely makes me a bit self conscious but on the other hand im proud of my sacrs, reminds me of the fight i got through 💪💙
2026-09-19 20:44:09
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costelloi :
Oh my god…. This is me all the time. I didn’t think I would have to do this again by my partner left when I got cancer so now I have to start again and I just CANT!!!!
2026-09-23 07:08:43
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cameroneales :
partner 💪
2026-09-17 18:02:20
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Amanda Magrino :
My bf and I had only been dating for two months when I was diagnosed he’s been with me through the surgery and cancer treatment our six mo anniversary is this month ❤️trying to get to know someone while also navigating having cancer almost seemed impossible it’s not when you are with the right person
2026-09-21 16:09:26
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Lexxxx :
Idk I’ve had so much fun dating during cancer all of them don’t care and I’m so much more confident 😭
2026-09-21 01:07:35
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carlwhitfield28 :
If it's any comfort US renal patients are in the same room as you are go to hospital 3 times a week, walk around with a chest line in and if you are lucky enough to go on a date and actually progress. Hopefully that person isn't going to be put off , but the chances are they will be , and they'll make up an excuse not to see you again
2026-09-18 00:24:23
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FIFI :
YEPPPP
2026-09-28 17:42:59
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