It’s not a gift if it comes with guilt. It’s not a gift if it comes with strings attached.
2026-09-24 01:54:43
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The Hot Mess :
This man does not act like he likes you.
2026-09-17 16:01:06
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Dorota Borowska 🇵🇱🇪🇺⚛️🍉 :
what is it? I will buy this for op!
2026-09-17 16:00:35
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Wambo💀 :
Manipulative much😏 total nta
2026-09-17 15:47:43
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Janna Bottorff :
if he has to hold it over your head like that it's not a gift.
2026-09-18 11:00:05
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Xiamei :
my ex was the exact same way. he LOVED to get me a gift/dinner/favor because then he could yap about it non stop for the next 3 weeks and make constant comments about how expensive it was, how dumb or unnecessary it was, how I ask for so much etc etc. he'd even get me things unprompted that i didn't ask for just so he could hold it over my head.
2026-09-17 17:50:03
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tanyakilian409 :
a few years again i started to match the energy i got from my partner and it wasn't fun for him at all, forgot my birthday, no problem, dont do any thing for mothersday, no problem
2026-09-18 03:04:42
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Soozey_Q :
terrible husband. he got exactly what he wanted, which was to not buy it. and he made it her fault.
2026-09-18 16:26:35
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Quiin Bey :
Gaslighting much? 🤦🏾♀️
2026-09-17 18:34:13
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Cat :
My dad did this to me alot. He talk about the cost of my gift over and over till it lost any joy.
2026-09-18 01:49:11
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Angela 🇨🇴🇬🇧 :
Naaa he's gaslighting you
2026-09-17 16:06:06
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XagirIymanX :
husband the ah🤔
2026-09-18 16:30:04
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Taz_rac🦝 :
I doubt he was going to buy it in the first place, he probably did that on purpose knowing op would tell him to forget it.
2026-09-18 20:09:46
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Blackmindandbody :
He wanted you to tell him not to buy it. He's actually happy because OP gave him what he wanted....to give her NOTHING
2026-09-19 18:10:13
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MB🇨🇦 :
What a horrible husband. Why are you with him??
2026-09-20 13:48:45
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kangomongo :
He's treating you like an inconvenience coz his all round servant suddenly has needs
2026-09-19 15:20:52
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Laura Paola 📚 :
I got my boyfriend two simple gifts last year. About three weeks before Xmas I bought clothes for him online as well as sneakers. I knew he needed new clothes and instead of waiting for him to buy it after Xmas I bought it for him. When he saw I got him presents (all packed in two boxes) he panicked since he wasn't planning on getting me anything (we don't really celebrate Xmas, but his relatives do). He asked me what I wanted so I said it could be anything he wants to get me, I'm not picky. He didn't look convinced so I told him that an Amazon or Starbucks gift card would be great, since spending that there (a luxury and not a necessity) would be a treat for me. I never gave an amount. I told him where he can buy them, two blocks from the house. Near Xmas he kept saying he didn't know how to buy a gift card (I guess he couldn't ask at a store) and if he just gave me cash I'd spend it all in one place instead of stretching it. 😏 wtf That's why it's a gift, to spend it on what I want, when I want?! I told him to not give me anything. My gift for him was something I wanted to do, no one forced me to get those things for him.
2026-09-17 21:52:46
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Kate :
Every year I would put sooooo much thought and effort into buying Xmas gifts for my ex ( we were together 11 years) and every year he would just give me cash. Even though I would literally tell him several things he could pick from to get me but he never put in any effort at all
2026-09-18 14:46:31
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cassandraamilie :
NTA!
2026-09-17 16:26:36
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Lorraine :
nta
2026-09-17 19:18:17
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Christine P :
This is like the old I thought about getting you this gift but they never got it for you and they want credit. Or I was gonna pick you this up today but I forgot and they want credit for that. It just makes them bad partners and you deserve better
2026-09-24 02:02:52
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Shady :
Throw the whole man anyway
2026-09-17 15:28:15
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Trina :
why are so many women married to men that hate them
2026-09-17 17:57:52
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Aquamarine Fox :
He was never going to get it and wanted an out and he has it now and gets to feel superior because of making her seem like she was the bad guy
2026-09-18 01:43:29
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Peter :
another couple that doesn't know how to talk to each other.. just read meanings into everything. guessing he feels weird getting. only
2026-09-18 13:05:56
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