@margotlovecoach: She was never the competition. That's the part that takes the longest to land. He didn't choose her over you — he chose the version of himself he got to be with someone who didn't know him yet. She got the beginning, not the better man. And whatever she has, she has it on exactly the same terms you did. Ten years watching women measure themselves against a stranger. You don't win by being better than her. You win by leaving the contest. Save this for the night you open her profile. — #Infidelity #Healing #SelfWorth #Comparison #RelationshipCoach