“If you don’t allow people to experience the consequences for their actions, you’ll always be a safe space for their worst behavior”
2026-09-21 04:29:07
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🇨🇦yourpetgoverness🇨🇦 :
That’s especially true for kids.
2026-09-18 14:37:26
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Prisca :
Fancy words for “if you let people treat you like shit, they’ll keep treating you like shit”
2026-09-21 07:59:50
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Yari :
I wish every single parent would take this into account.
2026-09-19 13:19:33
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Kim :
This is very true. Boundaries are useless unless you hold them steadfast. Never compromise your values for anyone. Sad that more mothers do not enforce this in their teachings with their daughters. Self is number one. Break the cycle ladies.
2026-09-24 19:55:52
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nkopi_kgomo :
Yes please don’t DISTURB!!
2026-09-24 07:39:01
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jesssxoxoxoxo :
‘Let them’ is the worst theory of all time
2026-09-24 05:23:03
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Ryananski :
Also known as a teachable moment. Some adults need this way more than kids.
2026-09-18 22:54:19
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wanderwithpolly :
Offt! Amazing
2026-09-24 13:01:52
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crazihorse 🦄🐎 :
It’s true
2026-09-24 17:46:22
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Bax🇨🇦 :
I wish someone told me this 38 years ago before I married my husband. This is life changing, life SAVING advice. ❤️
2026-09-18 21:29:20
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Canadian Ice Lantern🇨🇦 :
I need to use this at work for Human Resources.
2026-09-18 23:55:47
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user1696507329086 :
Until you meet people who don't change, regardless of the consequences
2026-09-19 07:54:44
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🇨🇦 TonyDaTiger 🐯 :
Learnt this the hard way after trying for years to be the supportive husband/friend/brother. You just have to take a step back and let them face the consequences on their own. Whether they take accountability and learn is entirely on them
2026-09-21 17:26:59
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Your Beauty Educator :
Thats so true
2026-09-24 11:12:43
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Bortega :
The people that do have to experience those consequences and never have before willllll hate you for it. 🤷🏼♀️
2026-09-23 06:13:25
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Valen G :
So true 🙌🏻
2026-09-23 02:19:47
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Lolls247 :
I thought you were Jodie Comer!
2026-09-18 06:28:18
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Barbieapple7🇨🇦 :
This couldn’t be more true 👌
2026-09-18 12:13:31
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Jessica Rabbit🧿🏹⚖️ :
It's true, step aside and let the Universe handle it. I don't need to know the details, I just believe it will happen when it's meant to but I won't be investing time or energy.
2026-09-19 10:22:19
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Lushleishman :
For real! Always forgiving him and wondering why he kept making mistakes. Learnt when you make agreements in your relationship it comes with YOUR boundary and if he breaks that you MUST follow through with the repercussions. Otherwise they learn nothing.
2026-09-20 11:52:42
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Carla Tabah Akkaoui :
Yup took many many years to grasp this
2026-09-18 17:00:09
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allthenamesaretaken2022 :
Ya but HOW do you do this with a grown adult?
2026-09-19 03:18:11
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PRoh🇨🇦 :
Wow you have beautifully unique lips!
2026-09-19 17:23:28
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ekstiktoks :
The way this went straight into my notes app
2026-09-19 11:06:08
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