I have father, mother, and school wounds. All were abusive to me.
2026-09-17 23:20:59
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dianavation :
yup, that’s why i work for myself and i can’t have a boss😭
2026-09-17 19:25:14
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✨️Bodhi✨️ :
Damn, I didn't realize. I have both mother and father wound and I absolutely feel uncomfortable with authority figures that I don't respect. I fkn HATE when people assune anything other than I am doing my very best and I have to work twice as hard for so many reasons in most situations.
2026-09-18 17:43:11
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Alfonso🇲🇽🇬🇷 :
Mmhm I don’t like authority figures and i often put my guard up when I’m in unfamiliar environments
2026-09-17 18:46:25
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serachnl :
This explains so much.
2026-09-19 14:37:28
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gabriela :
Well, in that case, I suppose I must be very grateful, because questioning authority is something everyone should do in order to build an authentic identity that isn’t compromised.
I grew up with my father who initially I used to say was introverted, but he was actually very avoidant. I was always trying to do anything to earn his love and acceptance, most of that was by working harder than anyone else with my career, and later on in life, that made me into a bit of a people pleaser; something that I spent several years working on eliminating. Today I’m very secure, and I have very strong boundaries, (and always very self-aware of my actions so I don’t go down the path of people pleasing again) and never had any issues with authority figures. I am very cautious about who I allow into my inner circle and I pride myself on a few people I consider friends.
2026-09-17 20:15:14
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Aviator4 :
What does it matter ? Even if people know all this crap they can't fix it. They don't want to actually do the work to do better. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 And if they do .. after a while they revert back to their original state .. so it's all moot at the end 🤣🤣
2026-09-18 20:37:59
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luxcharmaine :
I dont have a hard time, i dismantle them.
2026-09-18 16:34:01
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ky la la :
damn i’m being seen through
2026-09-17 18:53:06
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✨️ 1386 IamLoveUnity Oneness :
yep thats the old me
2026-09-17 21:30:30
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Chai :
Trueeeee it’s me
2026-09-17 18:45:13
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Found@Sea :
Can confirm
2026-09-17 20:55:32
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isaiahthekidd💙🇻🇮 :
Facts
2026-09-17 17:07:58
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𝓢𝓌𝓮𝓮𝓽𝓲𝓮 ✨🧚🏾 :
Listen
2026-09-18 10:30:30
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cerisette :
i can't stand my bosses when they start bitching and I always fight them untill they scared of me or kick me out the job I don't care but I can't have someone on my haid, now I got some respectful bosses cus they low-key intimidated of me [Larmes de joie]
2026-09-18 20:51:02
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user157962971932 :
Everything she says is so true 🥺
2026-09-17 22:51:19
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VeeJu :
All true.
2026-09-17 17:02:26
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John :
Seguramente Lo Ha Notado de Los Demás !!!!
2026-09-18 02:12:15
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𖤐𝕭. 𝕯𝖚𝖓𝖐𝖊𝖑𝖌𝖔𝖙𝖍𖤐 :
Facts.
2026-09-17 17:10:32
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viviana.brjs :
True, I’ve done a lot of work on myself, but to this day it still irks me when I feel like I’m being told what to do or like I’m obligated to do something. The second it stops feeling like my choice, I won’t do it.
2026-09-18 01:14:12
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💃Barbara ❤️ :
thank you for this wound, not following the system, that's really toxic
2026-09-18 03:03:13
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