@jacky_aloomah: I was a DJ. Toured, resident in Ibiza, that whole world. Drinking came with the job and with who I was. Then we started trying, and I cut it out 😐 Right call. But nobody tells you what that does to your head... You lose the nights out, then the mates, then the bit of your personality that came with all of it. And you can't explain why to anyone, because you're not telling people what's going on. So you just become a fella who doesn't come out any more. I don't regret stopping. I regret having no idea who I was without it. #malefertility #mensmentalhealth #infertility #ttccommunity #aloomah