Sandwich Generation Mom ❌
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Summer Anne :
Look up histrionic personality disorder
2026-10-09 16:00:34
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Monique :
I do end of life care & work a lot with the families of my clients. A conversation I have on repeat is “is it dementia, or is it manipulation?” 😂😢
2026-10-18 15:08:31
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thewigwitch :
The trick is to bring them out to the store and for lunch before appointments. It tires them out enough that they can’t showtime as well!
2026-09-30 03:06:53
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ZackVDatsMe :
My parents like to larp as 88 years old. They are in there 60s
2026-10-18 12:10:40
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KristaTheBabysitter | PLAYTOK :
After becoming a parent, My mom “couldn’t believe you did that” when I called police when she threatened to 💀 herself instead of going over there for her dramatics with my daughter 🥴 she never called me again for her empty 💀 threats.
2026-09-30 11:57:13
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DaynaRose :
i swear they need to update the cognition tests. yes, they can recognize a clock and recall 3 words, but what if they need to check their email? can they tell the difference between a text message and an email? (my mom can not)
2026-10-14 15:56:02
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rex :
My Nana pretended to not be able to wake up one morning at assisted living so she could go to the ER 🫠 Just for something fun to do
2026-09-28 21:51:31
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I'mGonnaBeAProblem :
I was playing under a bed across the hall from my granny's room while visiting in my youth. I watched her check for people, place a can of paint in the walkway to the door, scuttle back to the hallway for one last check to see if People were near, and then scuttle back to the paint can, gingerly lower herself to the floor, one knee at a time, lay down, kick the can of paint over and scream. she screamed " help me help me!". to this day, no one believes me. they all talk about the time she nearly died tripping over a paint can some inconsiderate grandchild moved just to trip her. 😒 the behavior is pathological
2026-10-09 22:56:46
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Your Mom :
I think we need to stop being in denial about who our parents are. They’re manipulative and they’re not good people.
2026-10-01 13:20:36
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somthintodotoday :
Make the latest appt for the day. Then proceed to tire them out during the day.
2026-10-01 00:15:12
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Mamafte🆘🇺🇸 :
this is what my grandma did. then she told the social worker that I was abusive for making her take showers. the SW told me to get her out of my house before she ruined my life. I listened.
2026-10-02 01:22:40
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Impv__🇱🇧🇬🇷🇦🇺 :
My Gen X dad does this so frequently. He literally complained about bad chest pain for 2 days and we kept trying to take him to the hospital but noooooo, we forced him to see a doctor and the dr but he was FINE! Just a little chest pinch. Nothing he can’t tolerate and is only there to shut us kids up. Well If it wasn’t for the tests he ran, he would be dead because that man was pushing through a heart attack for 2 days. He was mad that he couldn’t go to work the next day because he was in hospital.
2026-10-22 04:34:57
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chokecherry :
the excruciating parallel to them behaving (better) in front of authority, is the helpless act in front of you to gain free labor
2026-10-20 04:58:32
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FightSomeBears :
my maternal grandmother was a hypochondriac FOR FUN. like, it'd be a lull in the week and suddenly she has symptoms of colorectal cancer or some rare disease? then have a tantrum when she was not sick. she'd also make herself sick on purpose. put her in a care facility the second i could and she'd try to collect apple seeds to eat in bulk. on the other hand, my paternal grandmother never wanted to be seen as a burden so she'd play off that everything was okay but she'd take herself to the doctor once everyone was in bed or work and school. she thought us needing to take her to the er meant she was inconveniencing us. she thankfully stopped that shit when we moved to a large city and was too scared to drive.
2026-10-21 14:42:04
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Amethyst :
Omg showtiming? I immediately knew what you were talking about 😂
2026-10-01 20:09:40
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christinehayes971 :
I thought my mom was the only one who pulled this sh*t.....
2026-10-22 01:51:17
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educationconnectionbitch :
Nurse here; the elderly do this aaaaall the time! They will complain to us nurses relentlessly about a something, be angry at us and abuse us bc we won’t provide medication or the specific medication THEY want, and when the doctor finally shows up…all smiles
2026-10-18 12:22:15
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TexasGirlToTheRight2.0 :
We dealt with my husband's mother for the last 5 years of her life. It was so bad I thought I was the one losing my mind. So frustrating.
2026-10-20 18:35:17
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Pinkfink❌️ :
Im a retired RN (I quit my career to care for her at my house). Mom is Silent Generation, 88yrs. Narcissistic, wears a mask because everyone had to be perfect. Perfect family, perfect dresses, etc. She fell broke her hip shortly after my dad died. He had begged me to not ever put her into Long term care. I had to sell her house and she moved in with us for 4 years. It was the worst 4 years of me and my husband's life. She was manipulative, nasty, smug. I was shocked because that is when her mask came off. I didn't know her true personality. My husband worked, it became too hard for me to lift her wheelchair in and out of the car. She could walk with walker at home but barely. She had on a brief and I would still take her to bathroom every 2 hours, yet she would soak her brief and dress in her recliner, after she came back from bathroom. I would give her a bath every other day and she would poop in the shower. She was forgetful but, not dementia. She would say, "well I felt like I had to go but you were rushing me into the shower". I got to the point of exhaustion. I got covid, flu A and then pneumonia all within the same week. She caught the Covid and went to ER. once better, she went to a Skilled Nursing Facility. That was 8 months ago. She has what's called a Humana Legacy plan where they pay 365 days at zero copay for a SNF. I have fought and won 3 level 2 appeals and I am currently fighting the 4th. I've had peace for 8 months. I am going to keep her there on Humanas dime to the very last day of the 365. Then she will be staying as a paying Long term care. NEVER THROW AWAY YOUR RETIREMENT YEARS taking care of these nasty parents. You do not HAVE to bring them to your home. Tell the social worker its an unsafe discharge plan and you refuse.
2026-10-08 10:54:30
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thenoisycrone ♏️ ✨️🧿❌️ :
these boomer parents are wearing us OUT
2026-10-01 13:35:28
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Briannabanana :
i know this is the most codependent shit ever, but I called my mom's psychiatrist office to tell them how bad she was doing. alcohism on top of klonipin and other meds. they were shocked because they knew her as the cheerful friendly funny lady. and my mom was PISSED at me [Broken heart]
2026-10-01 11:56:03
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Lala :
my grandmother all of a sudden will decide to let my grandfather get sick enough he is falling out of his wheelchair for days. but she won't tell anyone until you're about to go on vacation or just had something in your life you needed attention for. narcissistic abuse never fucking stops.
2026-10-09 15:45:54
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Beacon Hillbilly :
When my mom found out I’d moving out of state, she asked who would take care of her as she ages, I told her to just let herself in the house and watch TV until I visit, like she told me as a kid.
2026-10-05 14:31:34
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Suzanne :
My mom does 👏 this 👏 every 👏 time 👏
2026-09-28 23:03:07
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GIllian :
My mom does the same thing. Then the moment we leave, she is pissed that she doesn’t get treated for her pain. I’m like mom, you literally just told them you were fine and downplayed when I pointed out your concerns. She made me look like the crazy one, then got mad because she didn’t get help. I would rather bang my head against the wall.
2026-09-29 13:02:34
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