Im always so afraid when I tell them I hate doing sexual things due to cosca all they say is "but it happened so long ago just get over it" or "you lost your virginity??? ur a slvt" and that's why I cant get close to anybody
2026-09-20 01:13:53
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niasprivxx1 :
NO NEVER TELL THEM
2026-09-18 19:45:35
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404 :
🚨 WOMEN, PLEASE HEAR ME. If you’ve been through trauma, be very careful about telling a man you’re in a relationship with everything you’ve survived. The wrong man can use your trauma against you, make you feel like you’ll tolerate anything, or weaponise your vulnerability. Protect yourself.
2026-09-19 10:46:13
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Mp :
Tell them, their reaction will tell you if they’re the right person or not
2026-09-18 21:56:33
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Nik :
how tf do yall know wtf shes talkin about
2026-09-19 07:05:56
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Chlo :
Never. And I mean NEVER have I had a good experience from telling a man my past trauma.
2026-09-19 11:36:59
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AMY💋💋 :
That’s bleeding in front of the shark girl !
2026-09-19 03:12:19
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crisantemo :
"is it better to speak or to die"
2026-09-19 21:16:36
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Faatoum.vv :
Told him and he used it to trauma shame me during an argument…never tell them pls
2026-09-19 09:51:11
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03Jakob :
comment section from hell. If you have no trust in your relationship, it's doomed to fail
2026-09-19 12:40:48
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🪷 :
but I don't want to talk about it anymore..
2026-09-18 18:13:18
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Sakura🧚♀️ :
I did. And like I always do, I told him in a pretty superficial and diminishing way. Oh he was mad. At them. He told me to never diminish my sa stories again, then comforted me. It was so fucking validating.
2026-09-19 07:38:34
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•𝓶𝓪𝓮𝓵𝔂𝓼• :
like it happened years ago wdym it still affects me now…
2026-09-18 19:18:43
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Cass :) :
My first boyfriend was the first person I told about what happened to me in childhood. The first words out of his mouth were “oh so what you’re telling me is you’re used up”. It has stuck with me almost 7 years later. I already never felt good enough. And now, I have a partner. He knows some but not all of it. He cried when I told him. And he just hugs me and listens. Choose the right one.
2026-09-20 13:21:29
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bergweg :
Nah. You will hear "I should have been there!"for the rest of your life, making the story about them as if they mattered in it anyway.
2026-09-19 09:41:33
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Isa 🌺 I Solo Female Travel :
I did.. and he did me even more dirty 🥹
2026-09-18 16:54:01
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Legallynikki 🧿 :
Don’t tell them until you’re married. I’m serious.
2026-09-21 04:04:14
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The real TInI :
Nah: I ain’t doing it
2026-09-21 01:17:17
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naomi :
I told the guy im talking to about how i was treated in past relationships, how i been r*ped and how sometimes i still get nightmares about it and triggers. And he put in alot of effort in finding out how he can help me overcome these triggers and nightmares and how he can make sure he does't trigger me and i really hope i marry this guy eventually🤞🏻🥹
2026-09-19 08:07:19
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Ryan :
I’m so confused man
2026-09-19 22:05:55
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SANDRRA :
What you tell your partner about your deepest wounds gives them insight into where you are most vulnerable. A healthy partner will use that knowledge to understand you better and protect you. Someone who is prone to manipulation, control, or punishment may use that same knowledge against you. You never know who you’re going to end up with.
2026-09-19 06:16:22
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lynzieloveee :
“So your dad took your virginity?” Not quite loser, he assaulted me and my first experiences with intimacy were extremely violent, against my will and TRAUMATIZING.
2026-09-20 10:30:49
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louokoma 🇷🇪 :
I hate it, i hate being vulnerable
2026-09-19 04:17:03
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Ash :
if you don't trust your partner, you shouldn't be dating them.
2026-09-19 08:48:46
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megs :
Ignore the people saying “don’t tell him bc he will use it against you”. If he does, he isn’t someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, is he? They’re acting as if withholding this information from a partner will prevent them from being evil, but if they aren’t a good person, they will just find another way to hurt you. So many people in the comments basically saying don’t add fuel to the fire, but why are you dating a fire in the first place??? Stand up and get better partners. If they really cared abt you, they would never use it as a way to harm you
2026-09-19 20:01:19
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