Everyone judging her in the middle of a grief journey is nasty behavior.
2026-09-17 20:53:23
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Summer Joy :
As a fellow child of hoarders this is the inevitable situation I’ll be responsible for dealing with one day. Hoarders are infantilized so much and the experience of their children become SO overlooked. Thank you for speaking on your experience publicly. It’s important to spread awareness that hoarding effects ALL financial classes.
2026-09-17 20:40:02
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Elli.ripp :
You never cease to amaze me with your vulnerability. You are a BAD ASS
2026-09-17 20:14:07
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Pink.Gloss.Monie :
you are not a DB! actually, you are very smart! You did what you thought was best at that time.
2026-09-17 21:18:33
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Melissa V :
How did you even find out he passed? Did you go visit and found him? What made you go there? I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. This is a lot!! Please try and eat a little something! 🥰
2026-09-17 23:56:39
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Brandy :
So your dad was living in that kind of environment and you're living in a nice comfortable house
2026-09-17 22:34:26
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SweetMonte📚🪩💍 :
My dad’s death was a biohazard. It was truly traumatic. He died from a GI bleed. There was blood everywhere. Im so sorry you’re going through this. I know eating and sleeping seems impossible but you need to. You need to take care of yourself
2026-09-17 22:21:53
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autumn :
When my mom died, I found out she was a hoarder. I had no idea. She had stockpiles food and toilet paper and everything and on top of that she had 22 cats and a 1200 square-foot townhouse and they destroyed everything. It was awful. We basically had to gut the whole thing before we could sell it.
2026-09-17 20:38:23
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DGS2000 :
So you weren’t close?
2026-09-17 23:47:58
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Amanda👑✨ :
Finding a parent dead is so traumatic..
2026-09-17 21:16:06
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whatnicolewore :
I’m so sorry. You are NOT a DB, you showed compassion to your dad which may have been more than he deserved but shows your character. Sending love to you.
2026-09-17 21:28:32
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Bobbie Schwartz :
You’re not a dumb B. You’re a daughter and it’s just what you do. It’s how you’re wired. No judgement on that.
2026-09-17 22:50:47
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chels :
Never a dumb bitch for giving second chances, and especially to family ❤️🩹
2026-09-17 20:51:11
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username1843747482549599 :
It’s completely normal to love your parents. HE is the dumb bitch for abusing you. You loving your parent isn’t the problem. We are wired to love them even when they aren’t worthy of it
2026-09-18 00:13:29
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Momof102 :
Please don't call yourself that. It is NOT true in any way. You are a generous kind hearted person. Please take care of yourself first. You're still on this earth with your son and husband and many other people that you mean the world to. It is understandable to feel betrayed by both your parents. You have done well in your adult life and have your own amazing little family. Please take time to process this and talk to a therapist that may be able to give you tips how to process and go forward. Your parents bad choices are theirs alone. Unfortunately you have had to deal with the consequences of their bad choices and their deaths. Sending you extra love and prayers. Hoping brighter days are ahead for you. You deserve it.
2026-09-18 08:50:22
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Em 🫶🏻✨ :
This is horrific and do not blame yourself for this. You did what you thought was best, you can’t control other people. I’m so sorry
2026-09-17 20:58:39
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SARAH HILDA :
My cousin was the same way. She resented her dad for being an alcoholic and cut him off. But when he died she was the first to look for sympathy 🤣😳
2026-09-18 08:47:41
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Dianne Prendergast :
stop calling yourself that, no one has lived in your shoes, when a parent is abusive, you don't owe them a thing
2026-09-17 22:23:22
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GossamerGrove :
You’re not a dumb b. You’re a kind, loving empathetic human who just wanted the best for your family member even if they didn’t want the same for you. Big difference.
2026-09-17 21:01:18
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Julia 🤍 :
This makes me so sad for you
2026-09-17 20:56:05
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Christina :
You are not a dumb bitch. Until someone has had a parent like this, they have no place to judge. My mom lives in similar living situations and I also don’t go to visit her. It’s hard I’m so sorry
2026-09-18 00:43:43
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mskittn71 :
My father was found dead in his home five days after and he was a hoarder as well. They had trouble getting him out. He was the town weirdo and I'm not sure if he even liked me. I am sending you sooooo much love you are not dumb you are a daughter who was longing for love. ♥️
2026-09-17 23:08:36
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Sarahmay72 :
Why was he living like that … this is so sad 😔
2026-09-17 20:27:45
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Kenz :
You’re not a DB. You’re still just a girl who is dealing with the trauma from her parents. You did what you thought was best because you still care, even though they hurt you. You led with love and empathy. You are not a DB
2026-09-17 22:55:07
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