@justme.findingmyself: The sandwich generation has always meant one thing: adults supporting both ageing parents and their own children at the same time. Minister Jasmin Lau said most Singaporeans call themselves sandwich, but “just because you have people who depend on you, both the elderly and the younger ones, doesn’t mean necessarily that you’re sandwiched. You’re sandwiched in age, doesn’t mean you’re sandwiched in finances.” I disagree completely. Having both sets of dependents is the definition. The time, the care, the constant juggling, the financial pressure — all of it. Saying you’re only “really” sandwich if your bank account is already broken is dismissive to the people who are actually doing the heavy lifting every single day. The label exists because that dual responsibility is real. Don’t redefine it away. #tiktok #singapore #fyp #foryou #foryourpage