Etrulia Troy Lee, MindsetCoach
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Thursday 17 September 2026 22:18:03 GMT
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user6836303945828 :
This assumes that their behavior in the present is appropriate (which why would that be the case if the past pattern was to be hurtful).
2026-09-19 17:12:26
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🐞 :
I am not forgiving their asses but I am surely moving on 💋
2026-09-18 02:21:08
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mari.mujerconproposito :
I’m not angry with them anymore, I forgive them and move on… with them OUT of my life 😁
2026-09-18 01:29:43
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red76 :
That’s exactly what older generations has done ✅ told their kids to move on and let it go. No FKN accountability or apology. Nice dysfunctional advice. If I did something wrong to my son I apologize no matter how long ago. Couldn’t imagine saying just forgive me and move on 🤦🏼♂️he would move on alright and definitely 💯 not forgive 😏
2026-09-18 05:57:41
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melissa :
What if they are still doing it me being 53
2026-09-18 03:30:33
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Maria :
Most of our parents did the best that they could’ve done. You have to forgive and move forward so that “past” isn’t connected to you!!! You don’t want to make the same mistakes. 🥰🥰
2026-09-19 17:38:09
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NINA :
My mom won’t stop though. I do forgive and then it happens again. How many times do I forgive and move on? I’m exhausted.
2026-09-18 12:43:52
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Gina Rodriguez-Trevino :
I’ve learned, as an adult, that forgiveness is for me, not the person who I forgave. I stopped expecting an apology from those ppl, I just forgave them, and moved on. Doesn’t mean I forgot, doesn’t mean that I will give trust, just means that I forgave for my own peace and moved on.
2026-09-19 16:32:30
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💖💖💖 :
Some of us physically cant.
2026-09-18 01:55:26
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PamP :
As an adult you are responsible for your own life. Happiness is a choice. It was their first time living too. Definitely doesn’t excuse them but you deserve to be happy.
2026-09-18 03:09:44
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Ew :
Thank you for this
2026-09-19 17:08:23
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LipStick :
this....hurry up too so you can be free!
2026-09-18 14:10:38
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Kitty Kay :
Well said
2026-09-18 14:46:03
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GodsSagittarius🔥 :
Forgiveness is key to happiness
2026-09-18 01:55:18
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. :
Maybe they DID know ?
2026-09-18 03:20:49
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hannahkisunia :
Boundaries are healthy. Forgiveness is not expected, it’s earned.
2026-09-18 05:10:31
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Maribell_the.healing.artist :
I forgive myself for tolerating my toxic mom n extended family for longer than necessary. I'm NC and moved on. Thank you very much 🙏
2026-09-18 04:42:33
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tiffphamm :
It’s like Cain and Abel. You can keep choosing to be angry and jealous. That will grow unchecked and you’ll end up carrying things you don’t have to carry.
2026-09-18 14:26:36
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ShugaPie♊️🌈 :
Forgive or DON'T, either way you are responsible for YOUR own life. 🤷🏾♀️
2026-09-18 12:57:11
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Sterling Sentiments :
An 80 y/o black woman who was still fussing her parents didn't send her to college 😑 - I told her go now. Lots of schools have free programs for seniors. Silence. Never said that again.
2026-09-18 00:25:36
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Travis :
it’s a wonderful sentiment really, but i will say it’s really challenging when they remind you how shitty they are/were every time you interact with them.
2026-09-18 12:16:57
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raeeeeekkkk93 :
I forgive them for the past but don’t appreciate their present actions lol that’s the issue
2026-09-18 12:08:20
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leoncio :
The forgiveness is about letting go and healing yourself so you can grow
2026-09-18 03:21:20
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Suekpurple :
I forgive myself for not being able to do something as a child and not seeing the dislike towards me as an adult with my own mind. I can't and will not forgive someone who keeps insulting and treating me like an inconvenience. The behaviors may have started in childhood but they still chosen to continue them. They have no remorse for the behaviors now much less the times in the past. Yes, they are people. Their choices are their responsibility as are the consequences of those choices. Moving away and limiting my and my family's interactions with them is the best thing.
2026-09-18 04:02:39
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Indigo :
You can move on and live it perfectly happy life without forgiving anyone for anything!
2026-09-18 13:11:52
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