@piniunoi: 🚿SHOWER DAY… if you know, YOU KNOW!😂 As Mum’s dementia progresses, her resistance to showering has definitely increased and what used to be a simple everyday task can now turn into a whole lengthy negotiation, distraction, redirection and sometimes a full-blown production 😂😭 So today we’re sharing some of the little tricks we use to get through shower time with Mum. Not because they’ll work for everyone, but because sometimes another carer’s random little trick becomes the thing that saves you 45 minutes of convincing 😂🙌🏽 We’ve learnt that with dementia, sometimes it’s less about Mum, you need a shower and more about meeting her where she is, changing the approach, using humour and trying again when something isn’t working. And while you’re here… PLEASE go show some love to our amazing girls doing Walk for Le Malaga! THEY’VE JUST HIT $1,000!!! 🙌🏽 What started as a group of girls wanting to do something to support our carers has grown into something so beautiful. Every dollar helps Le Malaga continue creating connection, practical support, resources and spaces where carers and their families feel seen. So please share, repost, donate if you can and CHEER OUR GIRLS ON! 🚶🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🔥 And carers… drop your shower tricks below because at this point WE NEED THE WHOLE TOOLBOX 😂🚿💜

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rebeccawaru3
bex :
yep this is real life of dementia ❤️
2026-09-18 03:30:36
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usernameynb12
. :
you need a lot of patience...it can be very frustrating
2026-09-17 23:21:27
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mamalifeau
Mama life :
🥺Big hugs I love your patience
2026-09-17 23:54:22
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piixxxeeee
piixxxeeee :
Caregiving is so isolating and lonely, you have an army behind you Pini, don’t be afraid to share the heavy xo
2026-09-18 05:13:13
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becstar8569
🪬 🌟 BB 🌟 🪬 :
As someone who wished they were in a position to care for my dad after his stroke he passed two yrs ago after 4 yrs post stroke the grieving while they are alive hit me hard xx lots of love from Australia x ur amazing x true inspiration x
2026-09-17 22:59:01
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chellymck000
Chellymck :
You are so amazing I wish we could clone you to look after all the elderly !! Thank you for being so kind and special to your beautiful mum I hope my boys will do the same for me
2026-09-18 18:55:35
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ange44109
Ange :
you are doing an amazing job caring for your mum at home. a trick I use that helps me is to have the bathroom really warm before we go in. I'm a dementia hca 😊
2026-09-18 03:02:49
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hooking_with_don
Donna :
You’re helping people who don’t even know they need it yet. Don’t ever stop sharing ♥️we learn how to support you during different stages also. ♥️
2026-09-18 05:15:34
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just_me_baby_tee023
🦘🇵🇭 🌺 Baybee_Tee 🌺 🇵🇭🦘 :
love you always my familia. you are gods blessing to your family. amazing human being xox
2026-09-22 00:01:25
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kween_oketopa3010
👑❣️Kween 🌺 Oketopa ❣️👑 :
Thank you Pini, for sharing such vulnerable moments so it can help all of us. The journey through dementia with a loved one is definitely a IYKYK kind of journey. Loving the community that is coming together ❤️🙌 🫂🙏🏿
2026-09-18 17:59:30
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fehoko1995
Aina :
You’re doing amazing Pini 🥰
2026-09-19 12:10:37
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lyanaelle25
Lana :
“Who are you talking to ..”😂😂 God bless you, Amazing!!
2026-09-21 11:21:28
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sashawalker375
Full Moon Blessings ❤️ :
thank you Pini....I totally know this stage of the journey...and the constant negotiations. Oh and the socks! 😊 you are a treasure 💐
2026-09-17 23:25:06
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iritanageorge
Unity :
Pini,I like how patient. Just know we are proud of you & the mahi you do.Kia kaha Arohanui
2026-09-19 19:03:25
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rhonn8e
rhonn8e :
Pini I feel for you its too much for one person,it seems its getting harder💕
2026-09-19 00:10:31
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jadeturton8
Jade :
You are awesome my brother
2026-09-24 05:55:40
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sueattiktok
sueattiktok :
Will playing abit of her favourite music help?
2026-09-17 23:40:26
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daphne.rangikotua
Daphne Rangikotua :
Pini you are sooo Amazing your patience is Amazing your caring is Amazing your strength is Amazing your love for Mum is Truly Amazing You are 1 of a kind💯
2026-09-18 02:59:45
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ianjeanes1
Ian 💙 :
Sending you hugs 🤗 PINI 💙
2026-09-18 09:43:45
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fehit
Mele Fehi Latuselu Tuituu :
love how u keep ur patient and play tricks with her.no matter when she keeps talking u never give up 🙌🏻💪🏻💪🏻🙌🏻👏🏻💯❤️
2026-09-27 11:43:42
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chur3261
chur :
you are a great son Pini xo
2026-09-18 14:19:39
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ak68737
AK :
You are beautiful.. and to your Mama too.🥰. Much love and strength.🥰
2026-09-18 11:09:20
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miss.90h
Miss🥝909h🤙🏼 :
You are amazing 👏🏻 🫂
2026-09-18 10:53:29
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mytribeandme_
LifeWithGwen :
Love your patience with Mum - many blessings to you both ❤️❤️
2026-09-18 10:33:12
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1peace45
PEACE☯️🕊🌿 :
You truly are amazing [Heartwarming]
2026-09-24 01:12:43
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