When we deactivate we don’t even notice that’s what we’re doing we literally think we lost interest. It’s the craziest thing. I’m in therapy now because I didn’t process my breakup for 8 months. It didn’t hit me until my ex moved on and I completely lost it. That was my wake up call.
2026-09-18 01:40:02
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H :
I was with a FA for 4 years , lots of hot and cold cycles but she was very very anxious , 6 months ago she flipped and became dismissive , devalued me and switched off empathy .. pure silence since
2026-09-18 11:13:50
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Whatsername :
Oh yeah, you’ve just described me and my partner! Good times!
2026-09-18 19:41:01
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dayanacol260 :
What I don’t understand is that my DA ex partner cried a lot too especially when she would get overwhelmed like she would cry and get all stressed out
2026-09-18 20:39:15
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🪼justin🪼 :
Leave me alone! lol jk come back
2026-09-18 14:40:45
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Danielle Browne :
She swung anxious during her first discard and came back after 18 days. The second and most recent discard, her break up was almost word for word, but she has remained dismissive. 2.5 months of no contact this time.
2026-09-18 01:09:59
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skeeter valentine :
can you make a video about how you began the process of healing your own FA attachment?
2026-09-18 15:12:29
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the_unseen_disasters :
I've finally reached the point in my self work that I'm okay with leaving while loving her. I'm in the family picture but not claimed as a partner. we have EFT therapy scheduled but I'm not holding my breath. this is the hardest point to reach.
2026-09-18 17:15:02
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Atticus David Lee :
Mine is an FA, then.
2026-09-18 19:14:17
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Amy6846Freddie :
yeah I'll run my FA mouth!
2026-09-18 01:09:13
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Zero :
Both are nightmares
2026-09-20 13:59:19
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