My mother got admitted to hospital to get a new medication schedule. She never came out alive
2026-09-27 20:26:42
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PhatRipsANDTaterChips :
I got to say goodbye to the vessel I never got to say goodbye to my mama
2026-09-21 12:51:01
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🕷️ ren 🕷️ :
Someone said to me that I should consider myself lucky bcos my mum passed away in a hospice and I got to say goodbye ☹️
2026-09-27 20:35:26
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Kend846 :
she knew you were there, never doubt that.
2026-09-26 18:15:56
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Erica :
I yelled at my dad and he died in a cardiac arrest. That will hunt me forever…
2026-09-27 00:34:48
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irene 🫧🧸🪁🍉 :
im so sorry. she deserved more time. you deserved more time
2026-09-26 22:28:14
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Danielle Sanders :
girl its not okay! and its okay that its not okay! my heart broke the day my mama left me and i aint been ok since! youve got this xxxx
2026-09-27 15:19:12
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hailey_parker98 :
Yeah I made it there but she was brain dead and non responsive she was already gone 😭 pulling the plug was just finalizing it 💔
2026-09-18 20:38:09
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Սյուզի :
i had to say goodbye to my mom in the exact same way. then i signed off on dnr and comfort care. she was so cold to touch and her fingertips were turning blue. her heart was failing so all of the blood flow was focused on her vital organs. her bp was 40/20. she was on three different pressers at maximum dose and her bp wouldn’t budge over 70/50. she had no reflexes. her eyes had developed this clear mucus like layer. pupils weren’t constricting. she was retaining fluid but they couldn’t give her any lasix bc it drops bp. she was also in end stage kidney failure so she needed emergent dialysis but couldn’t bc her bp has to be stable. her body was working against her in every way. she fought so hard over the last few years but her body had reached its limit. i would give anything to have had her say i love you or feel her hugs one last time. it’s such a tone deaf thing to say. i wish we didn’t have to say goodbye. and much less, with her in a incapacitated state.
2026-09-21 08:45:17
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Jayy :
My mom wasn’t able to talk anymore a week before her passing so she couldn’t say anything 😔
2026-09-19 22:24:51
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Rachelboo :
I wish I could have heard her voice just one more time. Saying goodbye to someone who’s unconscious is a different kind of pain. Then I had to do the same thing with my dad three years later. He never woke up after surgery :(
2026-09-27 04:16:15
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Riley :
My mom was on a ventilator and never was able to wake up again it was hard to say goodbye
2026-09-19 23:02:38
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vmr335 :
I’m currently next to my mom’s hospice bed she’s no longer responsive so I hope to God she’s still hearing all my “I love you” completely heart broken. Sorry for all our losses
2026-09-21 00:09:58
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MiMiSpahr :
They said hearing is the last function to leave the body… I hope my mom heard every word I said. I loved her so much. I didn’t know missing someone so much would hurt the soul so deeply.
2026-09-19 18:43:24
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Lily Rose :
I purposefully wasn’t there because I was scared and 14 and didn’t want to see her take her last breath. It’s my biggest regret.
2026-09-21 10:50:12
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Caneeed 🇸🇪 :
I didn’t get to say goodbye. I also don’t have to remember my father like that. Neither option is better, because at the end we still lost someone we love.
2026-09-27 16:23:30
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riley :
one may argue that it was the most traumatizing part of it all.
2026-09-19 17:33:12
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ToopyToop :
The “at least” will be the death of us. It’s SO dismissive.
2026-09-19 18:00:18
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Alcazar Adrian :
No silver lining in it really. It was the worse thing to go through 😞
2026-09-19 01:54:14
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user1542666167 :
my heart breaks for u 💔 i’m so sorry u had to go through this 🫂 i completely understand ur pain n know ur not alone 🫶🏻 my mum was diagnosed w pancreatic cancer n we got 9 months w her before she passed away 🥲
2026-09-27 14:52:31
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Braided_Bramble :
I was at a friend's 14th birthday party when I got the call to come say my final goodbyes to my Mom. I never got to hear her voice again, to see her beautiful blue eyes, her smile. She hugged me a little tighter than normal when I left for that party, I think she knew she didn't have long left and I take some peace at least in thinking that she got to say her goodbye to me 🥲
2026-09-27 13:24:03
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LaKisha McNair :
It was horrible having to say it’s ok to stop CPR on my mom with my dad broke me
2026-09-19 18:26:30
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Shaunna Cross 💫 Author :
The thing is we talked at 9:30 so what do you mean they called it at 6:30 and then 2 months and two days later my bestie also left the earth at 6:30 in the morning.
2026-09-19 14:00:31
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Marlen Loera :
I didn’t want to say goodbye.. I wanted her to make it out.. and come home 😭💔 lost my mom 5/1/26… they don’t understand this pain until they live it
2026-09-21 23:59:10
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Happy_Claire89 :
If you’ve lost a parent while you were a 1000 miles away you would. I hadn’t seen my father in over a year and the next time I saw him was in a casket.
2026-09-19 00:37:46
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