3 years marriage, no flowers, no surprise, no anniversary celebration, no birthday celebration, sometimes he buys me food that I love, he knows which cafe that I love the most, we laughed together, and argues, but idk am I being ungrateful wife that I wished someday he would do something special for my birthday?
2026-09-18 04:14:02
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𝐂harleiighx :
I feel so silly for brining it up. Like I’m being a bitch or something and that I’m ungrateful or nagging
2026-09-18 16:24:22
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EN(T) :
Contempt can kill a relationship too. No, you may not be cheating, but if there’s constant criticism, yelling, comparison, correction, pressure, and making your partner feel like they’re never enough, eventually the flowers, sweet messages, affection, dates, and initiative start disappearing because closeness no longer feels safe or rewarding.
2026-09-18 19:59:16
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emily 🎬 :
lowkey this is my relationship rn
2026-09-18 14:34:37
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Jasonh2 :
That’s ain’t laziness that mf just don’t love you anymore 😭
2026-09-20 03:42:39
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DoNotDisturb :
Chat don’t listen to TikTok dating advice. Every relationship is different and as long as yall have a base in communication and telling each other what’s wanted/expected, then you should be golden
2026-09-18 15:44:38
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L_Lawliets_SweatyBooty_Sniffer :
Being loyal is the bare minimum.
2026-09-18 17:35:39
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gen ☆ :
people stop trying and stop doing the little things they used to do before they dated/after they made it official. thats why people "fall of out love" or they sometimes mistake safety as losing feelings. relationship doesnt have to be exciting 24/7 but there should be efforts to connect
2026-09-18 03:30:48
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chichi :
it just made me feel unwanted like how come i was only special to you for the first year of our relationship
2026-09-18 04:08:56
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lunarski :
wdym appreciation posts keep romace alive, how chronically online are we
2026-09-22 21:14:01
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fernsandfables📚💖 :
Recently asked her to put photos of us on her locker at work and she said “well I don’t use my locker..” ok that’s not the point [Crying]
2026-09-29 10:51:03
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iwannamovetovenus :
So uh silent repost it is
2026-09-18 02:46:44
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xo.xorobynnn :
this is what i have yet i’m still drained and don’t want it
2026-09-29 22:57:30
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strawberry🍓 :
not laziness, but my partner would literally delete posts about us because they want to look "nonchalant" :/ idek what that means. like, you think you're being too overboard when you post your partner? the reason I literally fell for them is because of how expressive and open they were. now that's gone dhkdksjsjjf
2026-09-18 05:30:46
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KYPEHUE YbUBA3T :
"The Peace You Keep Giving Away" by Claire Morgan completely changed how I view boundaries. Never make yourself smaller for others.
2026-09-19 15:26:44
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RJ :
Just take the post part out. Social media should literally never be a factor in a relationship. People who do that only care about the approval in others and never about the relationship itself
2026-09-18 20:36:27
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mrshmellobunnie :
that’s why i broke up with him… i literally had to beg for everything. there was no such thing as “surprises” so i never matched his energy. we had the same boring dates, at the same places. it was exhausting
2026-09-19 05:59:17
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𝒾𝓃𝒶 𝒷𝒶𝑒 ❤︎ :
its not laziness. its them not caring anymore
2026-09-28 11:07:25
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💉 :
how do i tell him this without telling him
2026-09-20 14:23:35
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Sarah :p :
at this point i’m just getting bored. i do everything for him, and he sometimes does the same for me…but i feel like he only does it BECAUSE i ask. i’m tired of asking him. it’s gotten to the point where i bought myself flowers to pretend 💔
2026-09-18 15:51:28
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slendermanfan9 :
i told him that i didn’t feel appreciated enough and that telling me he loved me and that i was pretty was the bare minimum and that’s what you’re SUPPOSED to do if you’re in a romantic relationship. he replied “im not SUPPOSED to do anything”.. lol
2026-09-27 11:53:34
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Naniii💟 :
Idk man, i feel i’m the boring one All i do is work and sleep, but then again he does nothing but game, honestly ive lost the excitement i had when i was first with him, And he has too i can tell, all we do is argue and stay upset at each other (we live tg) 2 years an still going.. It’s like it hurts to be with you but it’d hurt me to be without you.
2026-09-19 17:25:59
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𝒮𝒾ℯ𝓃𝓃𝒶 :
i used to beg so much but it got to a point where every time he said he would change or do better nothing ever happens so i just gave up bc im tired of it. now i just dont bring it up bc i know nothing will change.
2026-09-23 06:06:58
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belly belle :
Made me feel like I ask too much :( all i want was love :(
2026-09-19 13:42:01
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andraada.luv :
On his fyp not mine thx
2026-09-22 16:37:56
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