@matcha_latte_jp: My host family just handed me incense and said follow along - nobody explained any of it first. What they say before you go, at the grave, while you pray, and the ohagi after A few small lines and youre not just standing there frozen anymore [Save] this post for your next family thing #LearnJapanese #JapaneseForBeginners #StudyInJapan #JapanLife #Ohigan