@styledbysurvival: Replying to @laura_k_homie This is my opinion and commentary based on publicly available information and Patrick Clancy’s own public statements. The fact that so many women are defending Patrick by saying he did “more than most husbands” is exactly why I think we need to talk about how low the bar can be for fathers and husbands. Working from home, hiring childcare, or occasionally “helping” with your own children does not automatically equal carrying an equal share of parenting, caregiving, or the mental load. Why have so many women been conditioned to see basic participation in family life as exceptional? Let’s talk about it. #PatrickClancy #LindsayClancy #MentalLoad #Parenting #postpartummentalhealth
People who act like Patrick was this amazing husband/father have questionably low standards for the men in their lives...
2026-09-18 05:03:12
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🐦Kristen🐦 :
My husband would never drop me off at the hospital and go skiing!!
2026-09-18 02:43:18
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Amber :
He made 400,000 a year but she is writing in her diary about worrying about buying groceries, come on now.
2026-09-18 05:20:30
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Jade :
The pediatrician saying he only went to 1 appointment told me everything I needed to know.
2026-09-18 11:07:53
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franfrat1 :
He was mad about Lindsay spending money on the house and kids, because he has expensive hobbies plus a girlfriend to impress
2026-09-19 01:15:20
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Karmaisacat3482719 :
When people say Patrick was a good man because he took his paternity leave, like what. He took his paid time off and we’re praising that? Taking paternity does not mean he was actively involved in care
2026-09-18 13:45:40
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elise_the_mindfulness_mumma :
Commenting that your husband is less than bare minimum isn't the flex it's implied to be it's actually dangerous what we have normalised
2026-09-18 08:36:11
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Stormie ♡🎀 :
Who’s husband is she talking about? Not mine. Mine would not leave my side when I went through PPD. He will do everything for me and the kids if I’m not feeling good or just on regular days, he cooks, does laundry, helps the kids with schoolwork, just everything. My husband would NEVER just drop me off at a hospital and leave and ESPECIALLY go do something fun.
2026-09-18 03:00:36
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QuinnBee :
I was in the hospital recently for suspected apendicitis. My husband was SO hesitant to leave me but did so only after getting assurances someone would call him if it became an emergency. He took the kids to dinner, bathed them, tucked them in, had my MIL come babysit and then raced to be back at my side. Maybe my standards are high, but I feel like that behavior is where the bar for your partner should be at.
2026-09-19 04:32:35
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Chelsy :
If this is the standard then I’ll happily never get married
2026-09-18 05:15:20
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Polly Pocket :
And the furniture was all cheap… they were making a decent living esp together, it seems like her salary went into household and his was his.
2026-09-18 04:36:47
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bub :
Well to be honest PC might not have known he was such a bad sleeper because he slept through the wake ups as we know by his reddit
2026-09-18 12:00:26
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ʙᴀʀɴᴀʙᴀꜱ ʟᴏᴠᴇꜱ ʙᴜɢꜱ :
Dude was not a good husb
2026-09-18 04:23:12
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Lori🌹❤️🌹 :
That means they fully did not watch the trial
2026-09-18 12:08:08
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LaPaloma🇲🇽 :
those people are so exhausting they refuse to have critical thinking skills
2026-09-18 23:04:19
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Rachel W :
The VERY LEAST he was a bad husband and father
2026-09-18 05:06:34
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Tori Taylor9615 :
He is a monster.
2026-09-19 00:04:22
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Ash :
Spot on
2026-09-18 15:46:27
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m.fanolua :
Most of WHOSE husbands???? MY husband is not leaving my side when I’m struggling mentally. I don’t even carry a diaper bag in his presence, much less carry a baby, diaper bag AND pushing the stroller around while he STANDS THERE
2026-09-18 11:14:14
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👑ATM👑 :
He complained about money alot , even in his trips obout paying 17 for the day trip,
2026-09-18 12:14:43
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Molly :
The bar for men is in hell
2026-09-18 16:40:54
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User200576985 :
Idk if I remember this correctly but didn’t he testify that he didn’t really notice that she couldn’t sleep at night although she went long periods without sleeping at a time and had insomnia?
2026-09-18 12:34:21
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ahlamkarma :
sleep training IS ABUSE 👀
2026-09-18 08:13:23
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ToothandClawBeastiary :
The fact there are women who think he was a better husband than most makes me so sad.
2026-09-18 13:37:59
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Media Mommy :
My partner does more for our cats than he did for his kids. Look at the museum video....
2026-09-18 07:55:22
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