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IshyGhuru :
Try to forgive him sister. He should have known not to do this and I understand how hurt you are, but you are a family and I pray you can get past this. Surrender it all up to Allah(swt) and stay focused on helping each other stay close to Allah (swt). Pray together, do dhikr together and ask Allah (swt) to take the bad feelings away from your heart. If your husband is sincere in being sorry InshAllah you can go on and have a good life together. Praying for you both. ❤️🤲🏾
2026-09-18 08:21:37
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Kiyani 886 TPK :
What was it for
2026-09-18 16:38:58
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One.1 :
he was feeling ashamed to tell u is something very important his family story he told u just because he didn't want to lose you, you should sit talk let him talk ask whatever u have in your brain than if u love him forgive 1 time , everyone deserves a second chance.
2026-09-18 22:03:49
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Slimpickins :
Your mistake was not addressing it immediately. Put the baby to bed and discuss very calmly what it is that made you both turn away. Up until that point you were happy. something changed. Go back to that moment and figure out the why, the how and the what's. You have a child, this isn't going to be easy but for their sake, find what was lost and fix it. There was no violence there was no abuse. All he did was hide his shame. when you marry, you marry every single part of them. he was wrong for what he did. But, it isn't a breach of trust to you, it was a security issue for him. Now, I'd rather my husband be sure in his mind, rather than treating a child differently because he doesn't know. it's open now. it can be fixed. I hope you get the answers and out one you both want.
2026-09-22 22:54:50
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Libby :
its was his doubt with himself. he didn't want to burden you.. you get al bothered and leave with his son and then he would never know. now he does he wanted to prove he was nothing like his father with out upsetting the whole apple cart .... I hope it works out for you
2026-09-23 09:04:53
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loulou :
he should have told you but perhaps he didn't know how you would react and by doing what hes done in a mad way shows he loves you and your baby. he wants to be there and a family man. I understand your point as well as your feelings are still very valid. good luck guys hope it all works out
2026-09-18 07:58:07
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shamalam992 :
He should have told you from the beginning, he was suffering because of what his dad did. Not at all your fault, not his fault, it's his dad's fault. please sister forgive him, live happy. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
2026-09-19 15:09:28
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Rehana Bashir :
No matter what he grew up with what reason did he have to doubt you. The apple never falls far from the tree
2026-09-23 22:56:53
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becoming_withyasmeen :
Open communication is key , understand each other , before test would have been better , but regardless it’s out and done so moving forward is he healed ? Or will he need to do this again for the next baba 🤔 he needs healing ❤️🩹 May Allah bring you both together as one and make your relationship stronger Ameen
2026-09-19 07:24:53
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Maz :
Not your fault BUT he needed to find peace in his own head and can no live with peace and pride forgive him but make him tell you how he feels because this could escalate into him suffering mental health problems
2026-09-20 12:50:17
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Lou bear 222 :
forgive him he just needed to do it for himself ♥️
2026-09-21 22:10:27
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😜😘🙈Jͥusͣtͫ-Me91🙈😘😜 :
I believe his heart was in the right place by not telling you, but in the same sense he should have explained why and told you. sometimes we burden things alone because we are ashamed of our own thoughts or maybe the way people would react xx
2026-09-21 09:27:22
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Princess Chweet :
He have the right to know if that is kids or not but he should also tell you he will do the DNA test on your kids tho but instead he hide from you and didn’t even apologize about it so this idk but listen to your heart that your kids need a father that all.
2026-09-19 14:47:56
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Caramel Queen :
Allah says have mercy, you have to forgive and Allah swt will do the rest sister insha allah. 🤲
2026-09-19 20:56:16
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thiago :
May Allah make it easy for you InshaAllah stay strong for your son
2026-09-19 08:25:12
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user6004269601345 :
Do use argue a lot
2026-09-18 07:19:47
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DAILY DISCOVERY BUSINESS 🌙✨ :
let him do its for him
2026-09-18 20:16:17
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Saira :
Stay with him
2026-09-18 17:11:17
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Mr LabMan :
Jesus is the only way to the Father. Through Jesus You Will become a member of Gods family.There is none other name given among man under heaven by which we must be saved.
2026-09-18 07:49:58
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Anthea’s crazy world 🌎 :
He has trauma around ilthe situation, it’s not that he doubted you or he’s son being his, it was what he lived with….. the thing is he said he was goi g for a blood test he just never told you what the test was, he probably would have if you asked but he still told you just not fully. Trauma is felt in many ways and he did what he could to break the pattern he has built up in he’s own head. Don’t blame him please try and understand. This will bring you both closer, don’t avoid him by walking away, support him and express how your feeling, your journey has just begun, he won’t do it again with your next child, love him and allow him to love you, good luck [Red heart]
2026-09-23 23:00:17
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london1 :
Shytaan was whispering in his ear he done some thing for his own peice of mind, he didt wana tell you maybe he didt want to hurt you, it was revealed to you of what he done for u too think twice about marriage, don’t let the shytaan win. Walk ur child and husband to jannah don’t worry about dunyas small talk, main thing u got his back he got urs and you bot together got your kids back.
2026-09-21 22:20:07
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Flowerquren :
You can always ring the dictator, and find out as you have right to that information.
2026-09-18 14:11:21
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KhaasJewellery :
You don’t know what this little boy has grown up with, the battles hes fought, maybe had mistrust in his mum, maybe having trust issues with women in general because of a lie his father told him. He had to do this to prove to his dad your wrong. Not all women are like this and without proof you can’t blame anyone. He had his reasons for not telling you, maybe he was ashamed of even thinking it but its not something to destroy your marraige over.
2026-09-18 20:39:59
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Xoxo🦋 :
Some women expect to marry angels on earth, but the truth is that we are all human, and sometimes we carry fears and wounds from childhood that take years to overcome. He secretly did the DNA test because of the fears and doubts he had developed from his childhood. His late father had advised him not to trust women, and those words stayed with him and influenced the way he viewed relationships. That doesn’t make what he did right, but it helps explain where his actions came from. Yes, he should have spoken to you before doing the test, and you have every right to feel hurt that he did it without your knowledge. But he wasn’t trying to disrespect you or deliberately accuse you of anything. He was trying to put his own doubts to rest and find reassurance. He has been a good father all along and has never mistreated you or his son. Yes, he made a mistake in how he handled this situation, but one mistake shouldn’t erase all the good he has done or define the entire relationship. Try to understand that he is also fighting battles from his past. Sometimes people react from fear and insecurity, especially when those fears were instilled in them from childhood. He needs to take responsibility for his actions, but he also deserves the opportunity to heal, learn, and grow. Forgiveness doesn’t mean saying what he did was okay. It means choosing to understand, allowing healing to happen, and giving someone who has otherwise treated you and his son well a chance to do better.
2026-09-18 18:35:47
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fredi :
Men are so judgmental honestly if they get a second wife and first wife finds out then its all good they only care about what matters in Islam about them not the wife, they like to name and shame
2026-09-20 22:05:03
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