@ingridexplainsitall: Replying to @Hey, It’s Courtney🖤 CHICKEN soup for the Soul (but make it hurt) #datingadvicefortheladies #datingadviceforwomen #hurtfulbuttrue #thingsmendontwantyoutoknow
I was told that I needed to have a large tumor removed and tested for cancer. I had a long term ex-boyfriend that did not respond to my text explaining this and did not help me whatsoever. I was very young and should have saw this as a big flashing 🚩 red flag!!!
2026-11-01 15:20:55
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youreinmycourt🐴🐈💄 :
My ex-husband had a kidney transplant in 2016. I’ve been by his size since 2013 and all through his health issues. I started getting sick 2025, and he started treating me like shit and I asked for divorce in Feb 2026 this year
2026-09-18 12:24:28
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Katieeee :
My ex husband was actually the best to me after all my endometriosis surgeries. this is so sad.
2026-10-30 18:39:27
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Diamond 💎 Princess :
16yrs in healthcare and these men are DISGUSTING
2026-09-18 11:23:40
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April Marie :
Stage 4 breast cancer. I was kicked out a couple weeks later. I live in a homeless respite center now. Haven’t heard a word from him since.
2026-09-18 11:08:06
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Anonna :
It's true ladies. They will drop you like a hot potato.
2026-09-18 10:11:13
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.J :
I got dumped 2 days before starting cancer treatment because of said cancer treatment :)
2026-09-18 12:38:19
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T :
Men see women like an appliance. When an appliance doesnt work anymore, its useless and you get rid of it. Sickness and in health means THEIR sickness and your health! 🤨
2026-09-18 12:52:27
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alireads ⚓️🪖♟️🐦⬛👑 :
RN here. It’s true. If there is a terminal illness I immediately ask if the wife if she wants me to call any female friends, sisters etc.. I always give the pamphlets and statistics so they can protect themselves. With men it ALWAYS BOILS DOWN TO SHMEX!
2026-09-18 13:36:57
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weirdgirlstuff :
I’m lucky that I’ve never had a serious illness but one time I woke up with crippling neck pain and couldn’t even move out of bed to go to the toilet and my husband got up, made himself some food and went to the gym for 2 hours and left me there unable to move 💀 nothing could stand in the way of him and the gym. I divorced him btw and am with an angel of a man now
2026-09-18 11:28:09
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Kentesk :
I spent 4 months next to my wife while she was in the icu with her lung transplant, I was able to stay in the room the entire time
2026-09-20 22:57:01
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Shanice Thomas :
its true. Sheraseven also spoke on this. she said while some of the wives get sick or dead the man already gad a woman or a replacement on standby.
2026-09-18 13:25:30
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Nicole :
Soon to be ex husband abandoned me 4 months postpartum. Said we were emotionally incompatible… mind you my hormones were out of wack, I was going through an identity change, I was pumping around the clock and healing from a c section. Of course I was emotional.
2026-09-18 22:15:40
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Cecywitt :
Mee 🙋♀️and I gained weight from my depression illness. He said he couldn’t deal with it cause he was disgusted by my looks cause I let myself go.
2026-09-18 11:19:51
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Daffydilma :
Worked in oncology for 20yrs - saw multiple men dump their wives and fiancés. One did it by text the night before her surgery. Another said that was not what he signed up for. Hope karma gets all of them😞
2026-09-19 06:01:29
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Bella🩷 :
This is why I stopped dating. Lupus isn’t for the weak
2026-09-19 04:34:43
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artbynadia :
Got sick with chronic illness. He lasted a year. Couldn’t handle it. I’m just glad I never had children with him.
2026-09-18 10:14:02
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Juicy_ hips :
they don't care anyway
2026-09-18 09:59:03
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little moon 🌙 :
100%
I was in a medically induced coma for Covid pneumonia. my ex h. cheated and cheated, and eventually tried to take me out for uncovering his secrets and got arrested.
2026-09-18 10:47:08
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ليلى :
Worked at ER one day a nurse there told me on day they received a woman unresponsive she was diagnosed with cancer once her husband knew he had a new women get engaged and his reason he told that sick woman cause you are going to die and I need a woman.she died that day even before starting any treatment ( I believe the emotional trauma was the reason not the disease) she had a heart attack all that was in only one month
2026-09-18 11:39:56
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imma say it :
i will never forget one female resident when i worked nursing home. she never ever got visitors but a man only showed up for the last couple hours of her life. he dipped on her when she fell ill and only came to say goodbye to relieve his conscience.
2026-09-18 15:02:32
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🫶🏼❤️Forgive&LetItGo❤️🙌🏼 :
I was sick in bed with pneumonia and instead of him HANDLING THE HOUSE … he said OH IM GONNA TAKE A NAP TOO … I wasn’t fkg napping I was too sick to HANDLE THE HOUSE … mind you , I nevrrrr get sick - so that was a huge eye opener - we are now getting divorced cuz I HAD TO LEARN THE HARD WAY - while I was struggling mentally and said I need him to step up … he stepped out and cheated instead … ummm, wow - yep, don’t be US
2026-09-18 14:09:28
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Chiara 🏳🌈🇮🇹 :
my dad was basically useless when my mom had knee surgery last year. I was the one doing double everything and making sure she was ok. He couldn't even think to bring her a straw to drink while laying on the bed. He didn't even think to buy a toilet adapter so she didn't hurt while sitting there. My mom couldn't even ask him to give her the calciparin shot, I had to while having a phobia about needles/shots.
At the end of those weeks I was so exhausted that I begged my mom not to die before him (they are kinda old). If you're marrying a man, keep your girl friends close period.
2026-09-18 13:13:17
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Christina :
i believe this to be 100% true, im screwed, im sick and have isolated myself for over a year now , my phone has stopped ringing, i really dont want to die alone.. LISTEN TO HER, KEEP YOUR G FRIENDS CLOSE , THEY WILL BE THE ONES BY YOUR SIDE AT THE END....
2026-09-18 14:29:33
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